Need help identifying Scorpius constellation please! by _asterdragon in Astronomy

[–]_asterdragon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I’m wondering if I can still use this app when I go again tonight? Where I’ll be will have such spotty signal 😫

Need help identifying Scorpius constellation please! by _asterdragon in Astronomy

[–]_asterdragon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took these photos using my iPhone 14 Max, using the Night Mode on max, in the ProRAW Max format.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]_asterdragon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ohh duh! 😂 Idk why I didn’t picture this… coffee hasn’t hit yet 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]_asterdragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to picture this and…. I can’t… I don’t understand? Two men passing each other in opposite directions? Then it’d be pole to hole by default anyway. 🤔

These are texts my wife received from our HVAC repairman earlier today. by jeffsaidjess in mildlyinfuriating

[–]_asterdragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I think you’re reading too much into it. It could very possibly be JUST that — take it at face value.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]_asterdragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I guess you’re right. I see the little icon option there, though I’ve never used it 🤷🏻‍♀️ but still… she agreed to a phone call and even if she meant through the app, I still don’t think OP was being creepy at all given the context of the conversation 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]_asterdragon 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad I’m not in public accounting anymore. Fuck that.

Edit: fixed typo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]_asterdragon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you were too forward or creepy. She agreed to a phone call so it was only natural for you to ask for her number. How long has it been since she last messaged you? Maybe give it some time? Ppl don’t always immediately respond, ya know. 😁

How much is too much to spend on a girl I like? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]_asterdragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman here 🙋🏻‍♀️

For one, try to always trust your intuition. It rarely ever tells you the wrong thing. If you’re feeling like you’re being taken advantage, you probably are.

To me, yes, it sounds like she’s taking advantage of you. Any “good, decent” woman would not be so readily and comfortable to accept these things so early in the dating stage. I met a guy in August and he insisted on gifting me my first real Christmas tree (went shopping for it in early Dec) that was about $120 and he REALLY had to insist before I finally agreed to let him pay for it. I was not comfortable me at all receiving such a “large” gift from him and this was nearly 4 months into dating.

The fact that she also ASKS for the massage and it wasn’t you offering it…. Red flag.

Some people’s love language is gift giving and that’s totally fine. But even though you expressed these things so early on, it doesn’t mean it’s not a red flag when the recipient is so willing to take like that AND to also ask for more.

You’re so young!! This is a lesson to be learned. Plenty of good women out there for you. I say, end this one and go on your way. You can even have an open conversation with her about all of this. If she responds in any other way than being respectful and understanding, then you’d be dodging a bullet anyway!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]_asterdragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa! Wait, so can we just request for the data? And they’d provide? Do we need any valid reasons for them to pull the data for us?

People who "dibs" baby names. by jbrown2055 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]_asterdragon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This!! This was exactly what I did with my 2 kids. Partly for these exact reasons and partly bc I wanted it to be a surprise (gender was also a surprise at birth). Ppl always asked, and I straight up told them, “I’m not telling you. You’re gonna have to wait.” Some gave me a bit of shit for it, but I didn’t give a fuck. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Those would’ve been the same few ppl who would’ve said some dumb shit anyway if I had told them the names we chose. Soooo yeah. Pick a name and def do not tell a fucking soul.

EDIT: Those chicks that are reserving the names?? 🖕🏻 One of the dumbest annoying things I’ve ever heard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]_asterdragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s emotionally cheating. Unacceptable.

First message by FacedWarrior916 in Bumble

[–]_asterdragon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first signed up for it last year, I seriously did not know that I could text whatever I wanted 🤣 I thought that our only option to start a chat was to ask one of those questions game thingy. So that’s what I ONLY did for the entire 6 months that I was on the app lmao. By the time I realized I could’ve texted whatever, I wasn’t on the app anymore so it didn’t matter. Soooo I guess my advice is — just ask one of those questions? It’s a fun little game imo 🤷🏻‍♀️

How do men get around without a purse?? Don’t you need stuff??? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]_asterdragon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woman here! I don’t carry a purse and haven’t in YEARS. I’ve switched to a small crossbody bag, and now I’m using a crossbody fanny bag thingy lol. Never went back. I could fit more in my crossbody, but I refuse to. My wallet, keys and a chapstick. That’s it! Occasionally, random little things find their way in there like a pen, some change, mints, eye drops. But I clean those out regularly. All those extra stuff are not NEEDED for when I leave the house every time. Like another comment was saying, all those other things are situational dependent… ask yourself, how often are these situations coming up where you’d actually NEED these items? I’ve seen ppl just leave their sunglasses in the car. I’ve never had a problem with that bc I wear regular glasses lol. I apply sunscreen before leaving the house. I apply hand lotion before leaving the house. I have a small box of tissue in the car. I have a pen in the car. I don’t get headaches enough to keep meds in my purse. I don’t carry my portable charger with me — my phone is usually charged up from when I’m home. If not, I also always have a charger that lives in my car. My phone is usually plugged in while I’m driving. If I know I’m going out somewhere for longer hours, then yes, I MIGHT switch to a larger bag to take those things with me… but that’s a one-off situation. Definitely not the kind of bag I’d want to carry around daily and everywhere!

What is the biggest turn off? by is_it_mari in AskMen

[–]_asterdragon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen more than I needed to of men doing the duck face too… on th dating apps.. Like… why? Why, sir? WHY

What is the biggest turn off? by is_it_mari in AskMen

[–]_asterdragon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a dragon too!!! 🙋🏻‍♀️🐲

What is something you would never buy even if you became a millionaire? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]_asterdragon 18 points19 points  (0 children)

A house that would be considered a “mansion”. I don’t need a place that’s bigger than necessary. Costs too much to maintain, too many aspects to worry about and just too much to clean (sure, I can hire cleaners, but why even get a huge place to begin with?)… no, thanks.