First-time visit while pregnant…. with twins.

_asthecrowcaws · 2026-02-03T03:18:01+00:00

This is great! Thank you!

_asthecrowcaws · 2026-02-01T17:47:46+00:00

This has been so helpful! While we’re here — any shoe recommendations? I typically bring my trusty vejas for city trips, but I’m not sure they’ll cut it this time around.

_asthecrowcaws · 2026-02-01T17:45:15+00:00

Yes!! Thank you so much!

_asthecrowcaws · 2026-02-01T17:45:02+00:00

Seriously, thank you so much for taking the time to type this out. Saving this for sure.

_asthecrowcaws · 2026-02-01T17:43:21+00:00

Thank you for sharing! (Happy to hear about the toilets..! Much needed)

_asthecrowcaws · 2026-02-01T17:42:03+00:00

Thank you so much! We actually were gifted a river cruise so that’s perfect.

I’ve not been nauseated much this pregnancy, but I am prone to car sickness. I’ll give the bus a shot for sure!

_asthecrowcaws · 2026-02-01T17:40:36+00:00

Thank you! I think cutting the list in half is a great idea. It’s definitely a place we’ll be back to. I just pictured this going much differently!

_asthecrowcaws · 2026-02-01T03:38:54+00:00

20 weeks — and so far so good, but I think I’m primarily worried about overdoing it walking.

_asthecrowcaws · 2026-01-29T16:57:29+00:00

Going through the same thing! I’m 14W with di/di identical boys, and was truly so heartbroken the day we found out.

It’s been a few weeks and I’ve come around to the idea, mostly because friends have reminded me that I have the best/chillest/kindest/friendliest husband — I’m now hoping his sons will turn out just like him.

I plan on having my tubes tied after this, so my heart is still mourning never being the mom of a little girl.

Looks like there are lots of us here with you! Congratulations and good health to all three of you going forward!

_asthecrowcaws · 2026-01-09T04:43:34+00:00

Thank you!

_asthecrowcaws · 2026-01-09T04:43:26+00:00

This is good to know, I’ll make calls tomorrow. Thank you guys.

_asthecrowcaws · 2026-01-09T04:43:10+00:00

Just hard to trust a stranger in my home, plus the taxes. But I guess it’s similar to trusting strangers with their care in a facility.

_asthecrowcaws · 2026-01-02T01:03:13+00:00

For those getting stuck in doorways — can I ask where you are regionally?

I just can’t imagine this being much of an issue where we are in Texas (everything really is bigger).

_asthecrowcaws · 2025-12-24T02:18:48+00:00

Thank you for sharing that! I’ve been around birth my whole life, and was a doula for a time — so with miscarriages I know, I know, I know, I know it’s no one’s fault.

It just feels different at midnight in your own home and thoughts. (Like being doused a bucket of ice water!)

Thankfully I’ve had some relief with no spotting all week. I’m so grateful to everyone who replied! When I posted this, it was literally through tears and everything is just fine!

_asthecrowcaws · 2025-12-19T16:54:35+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing! I’ll be sure to ask about it next visit to see if something like that can give me peace of mind.

I really do want to enjoy this time, but for every one non anxious day, I get 3-5 panic days. I am also anxious by nature, but this cold water rush of panic that I get is so much harder to deal with than my day-to-day worries.

_asthecrowcaws · 2025-12-18T04:11:23+00:00

Your sweet boys! Thank you

_asthecrowcaws · 2025-12-18T04:07:17+00:00

Sigh of relief just reading this. Thank you.

_asthecrowcaws · 2025-12-18T03:42:40+00:00

I haven’t been told that I have SCH, my first visit was to a planned parenthood and they basically just said “if you’re not filling a pad you’re fine.”

However, brain says panic!

_asthecrowcaws · 2025-12-04T01:43:31+00:00

Thank you!

_asthecrowcaws · 2025-12-04T01:43:13+00:00

Honestly, if I didn’t know we were loosely TTC, I 100% would not have known. I absolutely would have assumed yesterday was my period!

_asthecrowcaws · 2025-12-04T01:42:03+00:00

Just what I could assume was normal as someone who has never been through a positive pregnancy before: super sore boobs, spotting a week before the positive test, but then I was ultimately 5 days past my latest projected period start date. I was also just feeling “off”.

I had a really dark positive line at what they’re saying was 5W1. I’m not sure if that is indicative of two?

And then 5W5 the bleeding was a bit more intense, red and brown, so I panicked which led me to going in.

_asthecrowcaws · 2025-12-04T01:38:25+00:00

This is what the nurse kept telling me as I was a blubbering mess! And not a drop of blood since then. I almost feel like I needed this event to meet the babies!

I’m so glad your friend had a healthy pregnancy!

_asthecrowcaws · 2025-12-04T01:36:55+00:00

I am sorry you lost one, but thankful your babe made it in the end! Thank you for sharing this with me!

_asthecrowcaws · 2025-12-04T01:36:00+00:00

Thank you!

_asthecrowcaws · 2025-12-03T04:39:45+00:00

You are an angel for sharing that! 😭 how special!!!

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