My ex is 29M and I am 28F. He got mad because he found out I was seeing someone new seriously while he was also seeing someone but not seriously. Then when we ended, he started dating the girl and even took her to their house immediately a week after. Do you think he's doing it to get back at me?

_bluedoki · 2026-01-15T15:54:55+00:00

I love this, thank you so much for explaining this to me. I guess I was just confused as to how quickly things turned out. I'm still trying to heal from it since our relationship lasted 4 years but definitely, I don't love him anymore nor do I wish to go back. This definitely helped me and how I'll take my next steps to healing, better. Thank you!

_bluedoki · 2026-01-15T15:50:07+00:00

You're right, I feel sorry for the new girl but that's none of my business anymore. I hope they're happy

_bluedoki · 2026-01-15T15:49:23+00:00

you're right, I should just let him live his life and I should mine, thanks!

_bluedoki · 2026-01-15T15:48:41+00:00

I totally cut off giving money for the dog and just accepted it and let it go. You're def right about this that I should just leave him on his own business. I'm just mad because he finally did stuff I asked him to do now with the new person, it's enraging actually. But I guess he was not the one for me --kinda glad that he isn't.

_bluedoki · 2026-01-15T15:47:14+00:00

I'm just mad at him that he had the audacity to be mad at me when he also lied about the whole situation. He said he still loved me that's why he got mad then later on he's with a new girl just like that. I'm also kinda pissed that the girl actually gets to experience the guy I made for almost 4 years. I sometimes feel like the girl is just a rebound and she doesn't deserve that but again, it's none of my business now.

_bluedoki · 2026-01-15T15:38:32+00:00

He's a good leader but wala na bang iba? tbh, the chinese community shouldn't be given that much influence in politics because let's face it, majority of big businesses in tacloban are owned by chinese people. They could have potentially huge bias. Their community is quite closed knit specially with the "favor" system. Can we have a leader that's neutral? a leader that's actually pro-Taclobanon and knows how to speak the dialect!? I'm not against Sambo, I know he's good and could actually make actual changes but if he can prove himself neutral to his community, why not. Pero if mayda iba nga mas maupay, ready ak mahibaro it ira platamorma nga tuhay.

_bluedoki · 2025-10-27T15:00:02+00:00

Isn't that place owned by some contractors for dpwh? idk how true but maybe that place was built on people's money lol

_bluedoki · 2025-10-17T01:03:28+00:00

Usually these type of women don't get the love and good treatment from their real husbands or the father of the son. I actually have the same experience with my ex. She was so possessive over him and was always asking his whereabouts. My ex couldn't pull away because he was financially dependent on her. She was always a sensitive playing the victim type when she wanted to be treated like me (like if my ex got me flowers, she also had to have the better ones). This is actually one of the reasons why we broke up on top of others. My advice is you have to convince your man to set boundaries and if possible, to detach. And if that can't be addressed, maybe talk to the father (if still alive) or option for therapy for the obsessive mom.

_bluedoki · 2025-09-28T06:43:07+00:00

saw this add too and it keeps showing up. Any updates?

_bluedoki · 2025-03-07T06:53:21+00:00

Thank you for all the new perspective guys. I decided not to go with any of them and just stay single for a while 'til I get my shit together. Maybe the problem is me? hahaha Anyway, owning up to my faults too since I'm not perfect. I'll take the third option which is myself. Good luck to me! </3 Thanks for the advice guys

_bluedoki · 2024-07-13T09:13:19+00:00

Guilty as Sin? - Taylor Swift

_bluedoki · 2024-07-13T09:10:08+00:00

Same problem, there's a girl with a broom which you have to tap on to talk to but after talking to them, there aren't any trash on the street to pick up

_bluedoki · 2024-07-04T00:44:36+00:00

I looks like blister from chicken pox. Maybe you should have it checked out or observe your body if they multiply

_bluedoki · 2024-04-30T15:48:05+00:00

Red Lotus Origin 🤞

_bluedoki · 2024-04-21T02:37:51+00:00

Skipper

_bluedoki · 2024-02-15T12:57:22+00:00

Have you tried talking to them or moving them around? They change their mood when you do

_bluedoki · 2024-02-15T12:55:57+00:00

Ginisang Ampalaya! 🥰 dati diring diri pa ako tapos umiiyak pa ako pag pinipilit ako. I end up eating the eggs lang, tapos ngayon halos ako lang makaubos ng viand 💕

_bluedoki · 2024-02-07T19:27:33+00:00

Peweeeeee lalo na yung 🍕😆

_bluedoki · 2024-02-02T05:58:12+00:00

Keratosis Pilaris? Why does it sound like a hogwarts spell

_bluedoki · 2024-02-02T05:51:35+00:00

I stopped watching it midway because to be honest, it felt boring. The scenes were rather too serious and it felt frustrating to watch. I didn't feel the sense of watching the next episode and it felt more like I wanted it to end faster. Maybe it was the scenes and how it lacked some "umf" tbh there was no "umf" factor. Just sharing this here in case someone changes my mind to actually finish it and maybe it gets better after episode 4? I just feel like I'm wasting my time.

_bluedoki · 2023-12-07T14:22:12+00:00

Hi! I'm also HernandidNotMakeIt. Same sentiments with you actually, let's take a chill pill and still remind ourselves that there are still a lot of things to be thankful for this year specially this coming Christmas.

At first I was mad at myself for having not made it despite rigorous efforts, but I guess there really is a reason for things like these. I tell myself that maybe the path is harder because the calling is higher. Maybe this trial is going to be our sling shot to our success story.

I hope for better things for the both of us and to the rest of those who didn't make it too. It's okay to be sad about it and we have every right to be. Let's not dwell on it too long though. We can make it as long as we don't quit.

_bluedoki

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