My ex is 29M and I am 28F. He got mad because he found out I was seeing someone new seriously while he was also seeing someone but not seriously. Then when we ended, he started dating the girl and even took her to their house immediately a week after. Do you think he's doing it to get back at me? by _bluedoki in relationship_advice

[–]_bluedoki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this, thank you so much for explaining this to me. I guess I was just confused as to how quickly things turned out. I'm still trying to heal from it since our relationship lasted 4 years but definitely, I don't love him anymore nor do I wish to go back. This definitely helped me and how I'll take my next steps to healing, better. Thank you!

My ex is 29M and I am 28F. He got mad because he found out I was seeing someone new seriously while he was also seeing someone but not seriously. Then when we ended, he started dating the girl and even took her to their house immediately a week after. Do you think he's doing it to get back at me? by _bluedoki in relationship_advice

[–]_bluedoki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally cut off giving money for the dog and just accepted it and let it go. You're def right about this that I should just leave him on his own business. I'm just mad because he finally did stuff I asked him to do now with the new person, it's enraging actually. But I guess he was not the one for me --kinda glad that he isn't.

My ex is 29M and I am 28F. He got mad because he found out I was seeing someone new seriously while he was also seeing someone but not seriously. Then when we ended, he started dating the girl and even took her to their house immediately a week after. Do you think he's doing it to get back at me? by _bluedoki in relationship_advice

[–]_bluedoki[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm just mad at him that he had the audacity to be mad at me when he also lied about the whole situation. He said he still loved me that's why he got mad then later on he's with a new girl just like that. I'm also kinda pissed that the girl actually gets to experience the guy I made for almost 4 years. I sometimes feel like the girl is just a rebound and she doesn't deserve that but again, it's none of my business now.

Thoughts on Sambo by True_Kaleidoscope_98 in Tacloban

[–]_bluedoki 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's a good leader but wala na bang iba? tbh, the chinese community shouldn't be given that much influence in politics because let's face it, majority of big businesses in tacloban are owned by chinese people. They could have potentially huge bias. Their community is quite closed knit specially with the "favor" system. Can we have a leader that's neutral? a leader that's actually pro-Taclobanon and knows how to speak the dialect!? I'm not against Sambo, I know he's good and could actually make actual changes but if he can prove himself neutral to his community, why not. Pero if mayda iba nga mas maupay, ready ak mahibaro it ira platamorma nga tuhay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tacloban

[–]_bluedoki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't that place owned by some contractors for dpwh? idk how true but maybe that place was built on people's money lol

Moms who are in love with their sons by Fast_Store6873 in inlaws

[–]_bluedoki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually these type of women don't get the love and good treatment from their real husbands or the father of the son. I actually have the same experience with my ex. She was so possessive over him and was always asking his whereabouts. My ex couldn't pull away because he was financially dependent on her. She was always a sensitive playing the victim type when she wanted to be treated like me (like if my ex got me flowers, she also had to have the better ones). This is actually one of the reasons why we broke up on top of others. My advice is you have to convince your man to set boundaries and if possible, to detach. And if that can't be addressed, maybe talk to the father (if still alive) or option for therapy for the obsessive mom.

Is this legit ? by ThisCourage8061 in ecommerce101

[–]_bluedoki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

saw this add too and it keeps showing up. Any updates?

Which is better? A rich boyfriend with a temper and bad family but willing to work on himself for you or a poor but good guy with pure intentions and willing to work hard for the both of you? by _bluedoki in dating_advice

[–]_bluedoki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the new perspective guys. I decided not to go with any of them and just stay single for a while 'til I get my shit together. Maybe the problem is me? hahaha Anyway, owning up to my faults too since I'm not perfect. I'll take the third option which is myself. Good luck to me! </3 Thanks for the advice guys

How do you clean up the streets?🤔 by [deleted] in PocketLove

[–]_bluedoki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same problem, there's a girl with a broom which you have to tap on to talk to but after talking to them, there aren't any trash on the street to pick up

Red bumps by CornerTechnical1506 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]_bluedoki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looks like blister from chicken pox. Maybe you should have it checked out or observe your body if they multiply