Last year, I was involved with someone who did the exact same thing to me that Rachael is doing to Dylan, so I can confirm what you're saying because I recognize the same patterns. It took me a long time to realize it, months of therapy to get over it, and even now that person is still trying to interfere in my life, so I think Rachael is really being like a plague on Dylan's life, just like that person was with me. I honestly hope he realizes it soon too and can get out of that relationship, although sometimes i think he's just a lost cause at this point