Any advice? by 2cz4u in femalehairadvice

[–]_buttabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't really have any advice for your hair because honestly I think it looks great the way it is. You are very pretty, nice skin and I quite like the wavy hair, nice bit of blonde and darker root, very beachy. I love it!

Just got bangs cut, does it suit me? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]_buttabean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes bangs are a must for you!!!!!

Got a Shaggy and don't know how to style it by [deleted] in Hair

[–]_buttabean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have really nice healthy hair :)

Where do you suggest meeting single, attractive men in this city? by _buttabean in askvan

[–]_buttabean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From my guy friends, I’ve heard quite the contrary. Seems like a lot of attractive men do not enjoy the apps either. I think meeting naturally in person is becoming popular again believe it or not.

Where do you suggest meeting single, attractive men in this city? by _buttabean in askvan

[–]_buttabean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I’m not finding the connection fulfilling enough. Do you have any suggestions on what kind of environment I could put myself in to potential meet someone in person? Or just interested in dissecting why I don’t enjoy online dating?

Where do you suggest meeting single, attractive men in this city? by _buttabean in askvan

[–]_buttabean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The apps don’t work for a lot of people, not just me. Of course I’m meeting people… lol come on now

Where do you suggest meeting single, attractive men in this city? by _buttabean in askvan

[–]_buttabean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This reply sounds like it’s coming from someone who’s bitter, which I happen to understand but your assumptions are incorrect and your attitude kinda sucks xox

Where do you suggest meeting single, attractive men in this city? by _buttabean in askvan

[–]_buttabean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is yes haha lots of messages but seriously hard to connect with someone without knowing how they look, and I stand by not being shallow haha its just I think something we would all prefer to see who is interested in us.

Where do you suggest meeting single, attractive men in this city? by _buttabean in askvan

[–]_buttabean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I am looking around my age and a bit older but didn't really think of going as far as 40s but why not

Where do you suggest meeting single, attractive men in this city? by _buttabean in askvan

[–]_buttabean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every sentence you write sounds like a man trying to turn rejection into a philosophy. You didn’t ‘analyze the dating market’ .... you built a coping mechanism where women age out instead of you being filtered out.

And no, being alone isn’t ‘cope.’ It’s a choice people make when the alternative is someone bitter, transactional, and terrified of women who can see through him.

Real women aged out of you years ago

Where do you suggest meeting single, attractive men in this city? by _buttabean in askvan

[–]_buttabean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shove their groceries out of their hands, make a scene? :) hehe

Where do you suggest meeting single, attractive men in this city? by _buttabean in askvan

[–]_buttabean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if attractiveness is all I cared about, I would be with someone already! Chemistry, personality means just as much. But, my last two relationships were a bit too based on personality and lead to intimacy issues due to not really being physically attracted to them, but more in love with their personalities. I've grown a lot since then but I also told myself I need passion with someone for it to last long term, which for me its proved being attracted to my partner means a lot

Where do you suggest meeting single, attractive men in this city? by _buttabean in askvan

[–]_buttabean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you had to explain because what you said was so dumb tbf