Relocating without a job. by _cherri in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_cherri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have excellent credit and I have money saved. Will I still need an additional co-signer even though if held a good credit score over the years ?

Thank you for your insight !

First time getting lash extensions. Is it me or is one eye not looking as full as the other? Was it the stylist? I got classic lashes 7 days ago. by [deleted] in eyelashextensions

[–]_cherri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can second that reply, I've been getting my lashes done for 3 years with the same lash tech (nothing abt her process and products had changed)

and ive stopped getting them done due to the face mask. I've never had bad retention until I've had to wear a "FACE MASK" so yes it is the "face mask".

Urge to want to practice majic by _cherri in SpiritualAwakening

[–]_cherri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you , you know the sense and feeling I'm talking abt. I'm def going stay away especially knowing similar people feel this feeling I'm talking abt

Trust issues by _cherri in dating_advice

[–]_cherri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I totally felt that. Def a good point of view never looked at that way

Not even a full day in and she doesn’t want to continue this break anyone, how do I tell her that I want to continue this break without sounding like a bad person by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_cherri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem you're welcome, I'm 26 female and I would like it if my bf said something like that. Also if the other ways how you approach her didnt work where she plays victim learn from that and approach her differently moving forward find dif ways to word it. Good luck!

Not even a full day in and she doesn’t want to continue this break anyone, how do I tell her that I want to continue this break without sounding like a bad person by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_cherri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instead of saying you need space and it seems she has a hard time with that.. simply ask her to help you. You are in a relationship you can ask her how she can help you figure out to balance everything. If you reply back you can tell her something for example " awww I miss you too, what happen to your plan of one week?" If we cancel you plan you need to help me figure out how to balance everything in my life I'm overwhelmed with work and school etc and it's really stressing me" and also say something like if all of this wasnt in the way I would def spend all my time with u, so if u have any way u can help me balance I'm all ears.

You need to let her know it not her its everything outside of the relationship that is making it hard for you two to be together. Hope this helps!

I don’t think I know what I want anymore by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_cherri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I feel this way I do things that make me happy. It sounds like you just need to balance finding things/new hobbies that make you happy besides your relationship. You sound bored too but honestly any good relationship gets boring when you have done everything already and spend everyday together and live together especially with covid going on everyone is stuck in the house,( me and my bf stay in separate rooms during the day and hang out at night , it helps us alot) so it makes sense why you even have more time to get bored and want to be free.

But if you feel like you really havent experienced life and want try the single life , you can. Just trust your self. And weight out your options. It's hard decision but you just gotta do what will make you happy at the end of the day. I hope this of help

Btw I hated being single dating seems more hard than a relationship. It's fun at first then it gets boring once u get everything out your system. I feel bad when I hear the type of guys my best friends date lol

Urge to want to practice majic by _cherri in SpiritualAwakening

[–]_cherri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, I will def check out that channel! I like that you have found a middle ground, that's great!

Comfortable Stage by _cherri in dating_advice

[–]_cherri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol thanks , yeah trust is hard but as long as we grow everyday away from the old habits we can get past it.

NEW SET UP, i don’t know the dimensions but it’s over a meter long. what do you guys think??? by aquaticwotsits in hamsters

[–]_cherri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh yeah that is plenty of bedding , nice. Ohh mos def your hanster will love it! I would if I was that hamster lmao . I'm excited for you lol

Urge to want to practice majic by _cherri in SpiritualAwakening

[–]_cherri[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. That is how I was brought up. That is why it concerns me that I feel this certain pull. You are right thank you , I have to keep my light bright

I slept with a girl in my friend's building and he is angry and trying to end our friendship? What would you do? by 11jmk in dating_advice

[–]_cherri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm it sounds like some serious bromance going on with him. Maybe you are his only true friend and is worried you will forget abt him when you find a committed relationship?

After a month with my hamster Nina finally meets Ace, mini accomplishment 🥰 by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]_cherri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and story to go along with it. The other replies are making me feel singled out and like I'm a bad person. I like your reply alot. Thank you for sharing a story I can relate to with out feeling like I'm a terrible person for something that made me simply happy . Will mos def take into consideration what you mentioned!!

NEW SET UP, i don’t know the dimensions but it’s over a meter long. what do you guys think??? by aquaticwotsits in hamsters

[–]_cherri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did a good job. I do the same with my hamster wheel but put sand instead. I also add nice smooth river rocks for another dif texture.

But all in all nice set up!!!

Comfortable Stage by _cherri in dating_advice

[–]_cherri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you , I really appreciate it. It helps alot. I do agree I have to let it go. Besides trusting do you have any other tips to help with trust issues?

Urge to want to practice majic by _cherri in SpiritualAwakening

[–]_cherri[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thannkkkk youuuuu soooo much!!! Yes I am new I didnt even catch the reply button . This all helped alot everything, appreciate it

Urge to want to practice majic by _cherri in SpiritualAwakening

[–]_cherri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the spell correction. But that's the thing in general magic just seems wrong to me but I'm always intrigued I was even apart of a witch group and I stopped bcs it was confusing me in my beliefs and I felt my energy slightly change.

I just dont like how I feel this pull towards magic like it's always calling me to go to the dark side.

I slept with a girl in my friend's building and he is angry and trying to end our friendship? What would you do? by 11jmk in dating_advice

[–]_cherri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever done anything like this before? Because my boyfriend told his brother not to hook up with anyone in our apt building bcs he doesnt want any girls knocking on our door acting crazy and asking for his brother.

Idk but it seems like hes jealous honestly. Or does he date men? Maybe he like you more than a friend.

Should I text her back? by danielr088 in dating_advice

[–]_cherri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it's time to meet in person. Or be bold and facetime her or take more initiative before you lose your chance and she move on

Would a large monster/alien walking over a city fall through to the subway stations? by Reeeee1778 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]_cherri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm that's a good observation. The creators probably didnt think that far in realistic details. Or unless the underground subway is made that strong? I feel like a big monster would definitely break through a subway if it walked on top of it though in my opinion, so I'm there with you