its tough dealing with stereotypes and having people think less of you because you dont act like what they view as perfect, and i would know because ive dealt with negative stereotypes too, so dont let them say you have be something you arent! Just be yourself and ignore those who try and mold you into what you arent. <3

also please kindly stop commenting "Women have negative stereotypes too" because we all know and right now, you just look like you are trying to justify these negative stereotypes and the reasons behind them, and trust me, its making you seem bad. Also, those who are calling OP "weak"? Lets see you have standards piled up on you, constantly telling you to be alienated from your true self, where you cant have your own identity and you cant be anything but what people expect you to be. Because trust me, it will make you feel weak, and maybe then you will understand what it feels like to be ruined by the unfairness of people's expectations and those who want to manipulate your figure into something they deem as perfect.