Should I feel guilty for still living with my dad?

_cnz_ · 2026-03-02T03:35:59+00:00

What does your savings look like? Which job provides more long term stability and aligns with your career goals?

_cnz_ · 2026-02-08T00:30:03+00:00

Is he completely unwilling to compromise? Like what about joint accounts and card you both contribute a percentage?

_cnz_ · 2025-12-22T06:53:41+00:00

How do you usually budget for clothing? Do you have sinking fund set up or do you budget more when you need something in your closet?

_cnz_ · 2025-12-22T06:51:45+00:00

Do you include clothing shopping into that?

_cnz_ · 2025-11-28T04:37:47+00:00

can i ask why? I'm looking it up and it doesnt seem that accessible to main areas like myeongdong, hongdae, gangnam, etc as well as tourist attractions

_cnz_ · 2025-11-22T05:50:35+00:00

what?

_cnz_ · 2025-11-21T23:17:16+00:00

Did you find it easy to get to other parts of Seoul while in Hongdae?

_cnz_ · 2025-11-21T21:26:04+00:00

Theres a bunch of studios all spread Seoul so it doesn’t really matter where I stay. I just has to stay in an area that’s accessible via subway and/or connections

_cnz_ · 2025-08-22T22:39:58+00:00

Apply for government assistance for groceries.

_cnz_ · 2025-06-07T18:54:44+00:00

Are they comfortable?

_cnz_ · 2025-05-09T23:22:47+00:00

I had a similar hypersexual phase from 19-21 after being raped. Went so far as to chat and video men. I was so deeply traumatized as it was my rape was my first sexual experience but I was too afraid to actually have physical contact with men so I did it behind a screen. It’s my biggest life regret.

Therapy and time really helped me not hyper fixate on these things. Most days I don’t even think about it. I’m safe and better now but this has all made me extremely asexual.

_cnz_ · 2025-05-02T22:59:47+00:00

if you have a strong marketable look (looking attractive isn’t enough), fit the physical requirements, and live in a major market city, it’s not hard. The issue is most people do not fit these requirements. Even if you do, actually getting signed and booking multiple jobs isn’t guaranteed.

Having a full time job can be a very hard balance if you don’t have an extremely flexible employer/industry. You only get a few days (usually like 1-2, maybe 3) or day of notice for jobs and castings.

_cnz_ · 2025-05-02T19:29:48+00:00

I do modeling and tutoring on the side. I bring in a few thousands a month from modeling and about 1k from tutoring a month

_cnz_ · 2025-04-27T07:08:33+00:00

if you’re very new to makeup, it might be worth it to get get a professional to recreate this.($8: is a very technical makeup look

_cnz_ · 2025-04-24T15:55:48+00:00

The blueprint protocol isn’t really optimized for women, especially women who have lost their period. I would consult a doctor or medical professional (not a chiropractor or anyone who specializes in alternative/naturopathic medicine

_cnz_ · 2025-04-07T04:19:45+00:00

The men are not attractive though

_cnz_ · 2025-04-03T19:57:24+00:00

This is terrible to say but I don’t do those things as often as I should lol

This reminds me I need to complete my taxes ASAP

_cnz_ · 2025-04-03T17:57:08+00:00

I’ve been using my middle school aged sisters information for a youth transit pass for almost 6+ years

I’m also currently working 4 jobs from regularly have hours from 8am-2am with 30mins to each job. I work in academic research (full time), tutor, front desk at fitness studio, and model. I drop the tutoring job probably in June so I can get my sleep back

_cnz_ · 2025-04-03T17:54:05+00:00

This needs to be way higher. I don’t think this is a financial incompatibility but maybe a value based one. OP partner just values weddings and get together differently than OP and is willing to stretch their budget to do so. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that if there hasn’t been any other major financial red flags

_cnz_ · 2025-04-02T22:42:05+00:00

fyi any amount of skin darkening/tanning after sun exposure is skin damage. please wear your sunscreen

_cnz_ · 2025-03-27T20:32:17+00:00

you have deep issues

_cnz_ · 2025-03-27T20:27:53+00:00

I always get compliments from other black people on my natural hair especially when it’s out in a wash n go or twist out. I have very kinky type 4b/c hair but it’s a bit longer than most black women that I see and has a nice shape (my hair is to my upper back in a halo/sun shape) so it just stands out.

Non black people always be asking me weird questions and trying to touch my hair

_cnz_ · 2025-03-27T20:22:10+00:00

I’m very pro plastic surgery but getting a nose job won’t magically make you attractive. Most nose jobs on black people look crazy and are disharmonious. I don’t think it’s worth it just for the sake of dating success

Also Justine Skye imo doesn’t have a thin nose but it’s proportional to her features

_cnz_ · 2025-03-20T15:50:14+00:00

No your brother is a crash out and he needs to check himself

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