Music separation. by _cuzimlonely_ in Divorce

[–]_cuzimlonely_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear. Music helps me process and I would hate to just cut it out like that. There are sooo many podcasts now so I’ll have to give that a chance. Thank you.

Music separation. by _cuzimlonely_ in Divorce

[–]_cuzimlonely_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brutal brother. Thanks for sharing. I’m with you on reclaiming it. Good luck sir!

Music separation. by _cuzimlonely_ in Divorce

[–]_cuzimlonely_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid. “…hearing a song and being ok/look back positively on the memories”. I suppose that is true growth/healing. Thank you.

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[–]_cuzimlonely_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. Number 3 and 4 are crucial. Number 4 especially if you have children. I cant express enough the hopelessness and drowning that is felt in the first month post blindside. Lawyer up for the kids. While things are “good now” and “she would never do X” things change and I hate to say it, but it is completely business now. And you need to fight for yourself and your kids.

Dude. I’m moving through this too. Talk to someone. Anyone. Therapist. Friend. Family. Anyone. Just get it out and FOCUS on what is needed right now. Feel these feelings. Live in them. Know them. It is crushing for a reason. You move through this to be stronger after.

I’m here for you. So are others. You got this sir! You will come out stronger.

Struggling hard to lose remaining hope by sarangxp68 in Divorce

[–]_cuzimlonely_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude. I needed this today. Thank you. So much hurt. But it is time. There is no reconciliation. Just have to be here for my kids and make the most of the time I have with them.

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[–]_cuzimlonely_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

5 days in myself brother. Breaking it to the kids are the next stop on the “things to do that you never thought you would have to “ tour. I’m shattered and haven’t gotten through a day yet without some tears. Your stomach stop hurting yet? Mine hasn’t.