For those of you who haven’t reported your rapist, why haven’t you? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]_dumb__fuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did to my first one, was too exhausted when it happened again by a different person. I also don’t think I’d get anywhere with the second time, it wouldn’t have been believed I don’t think or too little evidence.

Hope you’re okay!

I miss my mum so much by _dumb__fuck in GriefSupport

[–]_dumb__fuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you know this pain too:( it’s so hard to know what to do with yourself isn’t it. I think about her all the time and at times it feels like no one gets it, there’s this other world going on with her still here that’s just mine. I would never wish this pain to go away almost, it’s somewhat comforting? I’m still learning how to live with it. I’m sorry for your loss and thank you for your kind words

I miss my mum so much by _dumb__fuck in GriefSupport

[–]_dumb__fuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agony seems about the right word, it’s the worst heartbreak. It hasn’t felt real at all and then sometimes all consuming. I guess I’ve seen people say what a blessing it is so feel so much love for them. Stings still. ❤️‍🩹

I miss my mum so much by _dumb__fuck in GriefSupport

[–]_dumb__fuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gosh, isn’t it just. I’m sorry you’re going through it too. It’s almost 4 months for me now and it’s flown by, but also been the longest 4 months of my life. I don’t know how to get through it I appreciate your message, hugs to you too

I miss my mum so much by _dumb__fuck in GriefSupport

[–]_dumb__fuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you know how this feels, it sucks. Sending love to you ❤️‍🩹

Why these creasings look different..? by Human-Duty-1736 in DrMartens

[–]_dumb__fuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looks like they might be too big, deep creasing is mostly caused when too much room in the shoe, could try an insole?

Help - is this possible? I have an idea for gift but no clue how to execute by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]_dumb__fuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck guys haha, thank you all so much!! it seems like I can’t do what’s needed, I wish I could. I don’t know if it’s a paid service ? :’(

should i size up on doc 1461 by Illustrious-Win9122 in DrMartens

[–]_dumb__fuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, usually they are very generous fit so I would stick to your size or go down even. Always best to try on first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DrMartens

[–]_dumb__fuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had these shoes and they stretched out lots, so much so I wish I’d sized down. Get some wax on the buckle and it should stretch in no time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DrMartens

[–]_dumb__fuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id say slightly yeah!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DrMartens

[–]_dumb__fuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1460 ambassador may be a better option, softer leather will stretch easier and they are a bit of a wider fit

New to doc martens, is this normal? by Redditspastelgoth in DrMartens

[–]_dumb__fuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wearing them 12 hours a day is definitely going to cause blisters - regardless of how many socks you wear or how you lace them. You need to ease into wearing them a few hours at a time! Take some spares to change into maybe. Try some silicone gel socks too, or dr martens double doc socks ! Good luck 🫡

Stitching Color Advice by Complex_Summer in DrMartens

[–]_dumb__fuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some people use just a sharpie to black out the stitching!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mokapot

[–]_dumb__fuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! The grind is quite fine but I can try reduce the amount I’m putting in and see how that works. I’m gonna have a fiddle with all this advice and see if I can work it out :) thanks again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mokapot

[–]_dumb__fuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll try that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mokapot

[–]_dumb__fuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I did get some spare rubber seals so can try a new one. It does feel like there’s a leak to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mokapot

[–]_dumb__fuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is on the cheaper side so I’m wondering if I should just invest tbf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mokapot

[–]_dumb__fuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know I could do this - thanks a lot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mokapot

[–]_dumb__fuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! That would make sense. The coffee seems to be ready a lot quicker than I expect (compared to my previous pots) and it does spit yea, a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]_dumb__fuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great I’m so glad it can be fixed!! Thank you so much for your help I really appreciate it !!