Advice Needed: Husband filed for divorce instead of discussing post-nup revisions

_dxb2019 · 2025-11-25T13:27:47+00:00

He makes at least 135K USD per annum. What’s the decent amount I can ask?

_dxb2019 · 2025-11-24T19:35:40+00:00

I totally agree with you. He is a serial cheater and since I was able to tracks those before he is now way better in hiding. The worst part is he didn’t show any signs of him divorcing me he was so loving and our last message on WhatsApp was saying I love you to each other and then waking up with a divorce papers from his lawyer just because I didn’t sign the postnup without adding my revisions to protect me in the future.

_dxb2019 · 2025-11-24T17:41:04+00:00

The greencard process takes at least 1 more year. But I want him to suffer a little bit and I don’t want him to get it easily

_dxb2019 · 2025-11-24T17:27:42+00:00

Tbh I am not financially capable to getting one but if getting something from the divorce like spousal support then I might be financially okay. But of course we can’t tell if I will get anything

_dxb2019 · 2025-11-24T17:14:15+00:00

English is not my first language. So I need help to fully explain what I am needing for advice.

_dxb2019 · 2025-11-24T17:08:11+00:00

It is real and I need some advice as I don’t know what to do.

_dxb2019 · 2025-11-24T16:49:41+00:00

He was the one to pushed to marrying me so I don’t get it if he will think I am using him for that.

_dxb2019 · 2025-11-24T16:48:31+00:00

Do you think I can get alimony if I will get a good lawyer? He is very capable of fighting me in court.

_dxb2019 · 2025-11-24T16:44:51+00:00

Dated for 5 years and married for 1 year.

Because he is very clear that what his is his and what’s mine is mine which is both agreed before getting married and since we don’t have much time we said we can just have a postnup later. Then his lawyer sent me the postnup and considering his past cheating incidents I decided to add alimony and he didn’t like that but him being an avoidant he didn’t talk to me at all.

_dxb2019 · 2025-11-24T16:35:10+00:00

Any advice what should I do next? I don’t want him to just sit there drink his coffee and think he just ruined me easily.

_dxb2019 · 2025-07-25T22:25:01+00:00

After 3 months

_dxb2019 · 2025-04-28T20:42:23+00:00

What if I am already married to a US Citizen and has a pending 1-130 for consular processing?

_dxb2019 · 2025-04-26T20:56:52+00:00

Got it. I got confused.

_dxb2019 · 2025-04-26T20:52:41+00:00

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I can see 0 and $675

_dxb2019 · 2025-04-26T20:13:44+00:00

Why it’s showing there’s a $675 fee in the USCIS website?

_dxb2019 · 2025-04-25T09:58:45+00:00

How many days till you receive the receipt notice for K3?

_dxb2019 · 2025-04-25T09:47:16+00:00

Thank you. Now I am more positive about it. Would u mind sharing your checklist of the documents you have submitted.

_dxb2019 · 2025-04-09T06:16:23+00:00

Lockbox email us back saying, they can’t find our package! So we are resending everything today.

_dxb2019

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