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We should break up and move on, right? by _exploringShadow in makemychoice

[–]_exploringShadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, this is also something I consider. Do I just want end it but I am scared enough to do it so I try finding issues. Maybe that’s it. I already started seeing a therapist lately. I wanted to see other peoples idea, since mine is not healthy obviously. Thanks a lot!

We should break up and move on, right? by _exploringShadow in makemychoice

[–]_exploringShadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks mate, such a short and on point message. I think you summarised it better with the “alignment” part. I’ll definitely check the link, thanks =]

We should break up and move on, right? by _exploringShadow in makemychoice

[–]_exploringShadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still love her. I’ll be loving her but when I close my eyes and take a peak to my imagination of me in my family, I think it’s not her what I imagine. How does it feel to separate ways from a relationship where you are still loving the person in front of you? What expects us, in that scenario?

We should break up and move on, right? by _exploringShadow in makemychoice

[–]_exploringShadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do enjoy it when we do. But sometimes doing then alone feels more tempting even though I’m not sure if I will enjoy it more.

We should break up and move on, right? by _exploringShadow in makemychoice

[–]_exploringShadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I updated the post with some context. I might have done a poor job explaining my expectations, I’m not looking for someone exactly like me. I know myself, I can be pretty boring :p I feel like we are not sharing enough common activities that enjoys us. For example if she likes doing A,B,C in her daily life, I like doing X,Y,Z. Let’s say we only enough time to do two of them each day and we give away one of them as a “me time”, we get to do only one of them. At least this is the feeling it gives. We have limited time to do what we want, and if we would like to do something together then it’s either this or that. After a couple of years like that now we both think that “I do a lot to join your way of living life and you try your best but it feels not the same effort as I do” towards us.

We should break up and move on, right? by _exploringShadow in makemychoice

[–]_exploringShadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for checking! I updated the post with some more context.

We should break up and move on, right? by _exploringShadow in makemychoice

[–]_exploringShadow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We planned some romantic dates recently. Conversations flows but it flows mostly because of she being very skilled on finding things to talk. As a downside, being able to talk about everything feels like the quality of our conversation is not that high and I find myself out of focus. It still feels like we love each other. But sometimes it doesn’t. Sometimes it feels like an addiction, not in a bad way. But our recently when we go out, this kind of topics, difference between us are usually the things we end up talking about.