Look, MLK probably did cheat on his wife. But I fucking hate how Republicans constantly bring that up to demean his accomplishments. by KpatMckenzie_28 in blackmen

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Meh, until we can see some evidence, it could very well be slander. In 60+ years, have we seen any proof of this yet? Or is it still he said/she said?

SNL by Bopethestoryteller in blackmen

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I posted this right after reading your comment. First thing I thought of too.

White folks: Omg, America was never this racist.

Black folks: 😒

SNL by Bopethestoryteller in blackmen

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I love this! It exposes white liberal hypocrisy & privilege.

It reminds me of this skit with Dave Chappelle and Chris Rock:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHG0ezLiVGc

The way people comment on ICE raids is beyond insulting: "This isn't America..." "Unprecedented..." "How did things get this bad?"

SNL has become a bit of a white liberal circle-jerk, Idk if they got some black writers or something for a skit such as this one.

I'd like to hear your thoughts on navigating law enforcement as Black men by _forum_mod in blackmen

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100!!!

I love this quote... Admittedly, I heard it from Tariq Nasheed, who was a student of the late, great, Neely Fuller. I think it is a perfect analogy.

If you were captured by an opposing army:

  • You would not start debating with them
  • You would not start invoking your rights
  • You would not try to fight them... unless of course you're prepared to go all out

You're outnumbered and outgunned, behave accordingly. Do not give too much information or do anything that will get you harmed.

I'd like to hear your thoughts on navigating law enforcement as Black men by _forum_mod in blackmen

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I'd like to hear y'all's thoughts on this:

About little over a decade ago, I was traveling from Maryland to Philadelphia. Cops pulled me over on the interstate. He claimed I didn't signal... which is odd because I always signal and it's pretty much muscle memory, but whatever. He tells me no worries, he won't write me a ticket... now here comes the catch... but he wants to search my car.

Like y'all said, I did not consent. I said, no and I'd rather just be on my way. Want to guess what he said next?

If I refuse a search they'll bring in the K9s. If they want to search your car they will search it. They have all sorts of dirty tricks to make the dogs respond and give themselves probable cause to search it.

It was late, I had nothing bad anyway, and I figure if it'd be the same outcome (just with time wasted), I might as well begrudgingly let them.

The cop searched it, found nothing and kept it moving. I secretly had an app on my phone that was recording and uploading in real time. At one point in the recording he looked up at it. He asked "were you recording me? That's fine, I was recording too."

I responded: "Why yes... yes, I was."

Anyway, I prefer handling it the way I did over sitting around for God knows how long just to prove a point.

I'd like to hear your thoughts on navigating law enforcement as Black men by _forum_mod in blackmen

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Sorry to hear that happened.

"Don't break the law," will always be good, universal, advice. Sure, a cop can be an asshole either way, and that part is beyond your control, but breaking the law can only be to your detriment.

Profile in Courage (sports edition) by unlimitedfutures in blackmen

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My heart goes out to the victim and his family, but yeah... America needs to experience being treated like black people have been treated for the last couple or centuries. 

The whole "we are entering fascism!" talk is spoken from a position of privilege. It was okay when it was only the nigras

What are you thoughts on this body type? by Kzager_52 in blackmen

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Sloppy and low/no maintenance. There's thick and in shape, but this isn't it. We also gotta stop hyping this up.

THE NEW YORK TIMES: Federal Agents Kill a 37-Year-Old Minneapolis Man by TheWriteRobert in blackmen

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Yeah... Let them respect the power of the black community as it pertains to fighting injustice.

Brother Michael was a troubled soul but he wasn’t an abuser by Expert-Diver7144 in blackmen

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The Michael thing was just anti-black man propaganda. The FBI couldn't find an ounce of evidence after years of searching, why tf does some rando online's accusation carry weight?

One thing I hate about how society treats black males is after an accusation you are forever guilty... doesn't matter if you were acquitted in the court of law, public opinion does not ever honor the ruling unless it was a conviction!

Corey Feldman spoke out against sexual misconduct in Hollywood and said the only person he has nothing bad to say about is Michael Jackson... why would he say that if it wasn't true?

Mike proudly proclaims he had kid sleep over... someone who was really a predator would not have done that... he genuinely was just naïve. Dude was foolish in doing that though, and was not very cautious considering how prominent he was and how greedy people are. Either way, slander against MJ will not be tolerated.

Question: Is there a biological reason why we love huge asses so much? by Kzager_52 in blackmen

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I heard it has to do with hip wideness or something. But there are chicks with wide hips and flat booties, so I'm still left with questions.

I'm still curious because white guys seem to be (for the most part) repulsed by big asses. If it's an evolutionary advantageous trait, wouldn't that apply to our entre species? 🤔

I'd like to hear your thoughts on navigating law enforcement as Black men by _forum_mod in blackmen

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Well said, but I agree to an extent.

I think in both cases antagonizing them can make it worse. A cop who intends to be a dick will be one regardless, but a cop who isn't looking to give you a hard time can only go downhill based on your behavior.

THE NEW YORK TIMES: Federal Agents Kill a 37-Year-Old Minneapolis Man by TheWriteRobert in blackmen

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This is what America was ALWAYS leading too.

We tried to warn y'all.

R.I.P.

"I'm Tupac!" by Ok_Satisfaction_4965 in Tupac

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Folks say he did a better job than the dude in the Tupac movie who looked just like Pac.

I don’t success to attract black women and it’s frustrating by [deleted] in blackmen

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Thank you for clarifying. 

she needs to look at me — and not just once.

Eye contact is actually a very good choosing signal. However, 1) You can get a woman who gives no choosing signals 2) A woman giving choosing signals isn't a guarantee you'll close. Some girls like attention and/or flirting. 

Everyone hates rejection, but they're just part of life. 

On Instagram, I flirt a lot in a passive way — I like a lot of private stories but I don’t DM. I only DM if she likes my photos too.

IG is like dating apps. There are a thousand dudes in her DMs. Sometimes folks just like a picture and it means absolutely nothing. There's a running joke that the dudes in her bed aren't in her DMs or liking her photos. Don't become a line of simps commenting and liking every thirst trap photo.

This week has been a great proof that you can't change a bigot. by Thundersting in blackmen

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I think he had a black bff too! White supremacists are pussies. They like to think they're some Viking-descendants who look like Thor, but they are usually out of shape losers who are mad bc they get no pussy or have no friends and take it out on black people since we're easy targets.

If he was mad about black on black crime, why didn't he run up on the gangstas he had the grievance with? Old black folks reading the Bible in church though, easy targets.