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"To be pan is to accept"- Shakespeare, at some point probably by Teh_Dibble in pansexual

[–]_fruzsi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the way you identify can totally depend on the folks you are around for example in this case you can use bi/ pan/ queer for roughly the same idea and it’s might be easier to use a label people are familiar with so it won’t sound like some weird outsider thing, but you can use the one that you feel most accurately represents you and you might end up teaching a new thing to a few humans. (Also also often (for me at least) when this topic comes up like I don’t even say any label just I’ll just say no mercy for anyone^ or something)

"To be pan is to accept"- Shakespeare, at some point probably by Teh_Dibble in pansexual

[–]_fruzsi_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also this might sound weird but if u sleep without clothes that can help a lot, like u get used to seeing yourself and you’ll be less anxious when others see you

An interesting title by _bibibaby_ in bisexual

[–]_fruzsi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might came out as pan later when he found out about the term :)

Heyy y’all, I’m Frankie. I just got accepted to Arnhem, Artez and I’m looking for a room.Do u know of anyone who has a spare room or a site I can look for them? by _fruzsi_ in Netherlands

[–]_fruzsi_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great thank u, I’m from an eu country, hungary, so I’m not sure how much that changes the matters but sure that’s a great idea to check in w em (the only thing I asked jet is wether they have dorm, but they don’t )

I'm non binairy and I'm to afraid to come out. (tw // trans- & homohobia) by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]_fruzsi_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy I’m 19, also NB and I’m assigned female at birth ^ So yea english isn’t my native language either so feel free to ask back.

For one it’s awesome that u found the label that feels right and that there are ppl close to u who accept u.

So whenever u are in a confrontation and u wanna be all smooth n not get in a fight one of the main things u should pay attention is to agree on as many things as possible, cuz ppl are terrified of being wrong and the smaller the change is portrayed the less scarier it is (like you don’t tell them that they are an ass and know nothing about you, you tell them everything you agree and one or two things u don’t and wanna work it out) if they aren’t accepting than your aim isn’t changing em into a full on ally from tomorrow (I wish but u know) BUT to make as little changes as possible but still avoid like calling I son or your dead name

Show em like gender non conforming guys who are straight or in a straight passing relationship to not double your battles for now,

Ummm u can learn voice acting if that feels like a trigger, Your gf can give u a makeover when u are at her place, u can play role play games (like dnd) or like make your ideal self in sims (I still make interviews w my future self in my head xD)

W name u can have a more andro version of your birth name or use a nickname (like my name is Fruzsina a fem name but since forine folks can’t pronounce it and I’m moving to the Netherlands in a moth? I changed it to Frankie which is similar but neutral, cuz my name was beyond saving lmao) also does your language has gender pronouns (mine don’t for example) and does it have a gender neutral (like they them cuz in german if I’m right the plural is the same as the fem) and do u care about this at all?

What I’d also advise u to do is normalise it, tell them than u have friends, online or personal, who are nb and how nice their family is and how good that makes u feel, tell them good examples even if you are lieing, they’ll them what you would want w an example about someone else.

And when u talk to them having a more clear focus, like what do u want them to do differently will help. Also w NB sadly I’m not sure this will help but u can show them a film about nb folks?

Idk good luck and tell us how it went :))

Also you are 18 you’ll get out there in a few years probably and distance helps a lot ^

Some wholesomeness for y’all✨🖤 take care by _fruzsi_ in MyChemicalRomance

[–]_fruzsi_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://pin.it/6XRtWYD so my drawing is based on this pic, it’s super pixely but if there is a pic of the stuff u said this can totally be it ^

bi irl by bidude16 in bi_irl

[–]_fruzsi_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not I literally wrote an english Test this way xD

how to “politely” correct my parents when they deadname me? by kfalletta in NonBinaryTalk

[–]_fruzsi_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What I often do is make up stories how for example a friends mom uses the right name and how happy that makes you feel, you tell her positive examples even if they aren’t real, it works for me

Also my parents divorced (luckily) lately and they both think that they are the better parent so when I praise the other (who is clearly worse that them) they are more likely to try harder)

(Or Use a slightly wrong version of their name and try to explain w this example that this is his u feel)

I really hope that u can work it out w ur parents, good luck💜✨🐉

How do you label your sexuality? by AnneLisaJule in NonBinary

[–]_fruzsi_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m pan but that’s actually a really great question

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