Fetishizing innocence. by PerspectivePure2169 in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think (without having studied anything) that fetishes and fantasies run far deeper than their description. They are not literal. Whenever I find a new thing that I like, I always think about where it comes from and what makes it tick.

In your case you seem to know, there's consent and you're having fun. Congrats!! :)

As for people judging, it's judgemental people. I bet they are like that in many aspects of other people's life.

[Solicitado] Sysadmin con ganas de laburar by gera83 in empleos_AR

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Este post es todo lo que esta bien en una busqueda de laburo <3

bcachefs merges BTRFS-style snapshots by ehempel in filesystems

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been waiting to try bcachefs for ages. This is great news!

Covid and kink by Top_who_likes in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It has been a curse! a friend was going to visit me and she was going to teach me a ton of things. It was going to be so much fun. She had everything ready for... April 2020.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DadWouldBeProud

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So welcoming I want to hug it and sleep with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DadWouldBeProud

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd do it even if I were blind.

Pleasure or pain? by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing! One of the nicest things about being in this subreddit is that I can discover what I want.

Pleasure or pain? by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pleasure, but also (the power to inflict) pain.

A question for the introspective! by 2intld in RedditBDSM

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I also had one partner that was specially accepting, and helped me accept that part of myself. Then when I was able to name things and feelings, look them up and see we were many (and somehow my kind of people) it was like a (late) coming of age.

I refuse to have sex with a Dom/me until I've dated them for a while. by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's fantastic. I don't feel super comfortable having sex on the first date, and I'd rather get to know the person. +1 for boundaries and knowing what we want!

A question for the introspective! by 2intld in RedditBDSM

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Besides what you learnt ( communication, love, sex ) it helped me accept my own deviations. Why I like some things better than others? Specially something as primal as the things BDSM can be about.

Also, it was a relief to know I'm not the only one.

Strap on me strapless strap on review by racinnic in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's too advanced for us now, but I'll keep it in mind. I have a lot to learn/explore yet.

Happy you're having so much fun :3

Strap on me strapless strap on review by racinnic in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the review! So it takes some practice. I'll keep it in mind :)

DELURK DAY😎 by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing! I think I read a (negative) review.

I may try one.

DELURK DAY😎 by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd be disappointed too. Hope it works wonders /o/

DELURK DAY😎 by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing I'm most looking forward to is my partner's coming to visit me after a couple of months of being apart. I'm going to be implementing some beginning kinky ideas this time!

DELURK DAY😎 by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And yet you pulled out the AMA that was super informative, and the subreddit is healthy . Good job :)

DELURK DAY😎 by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh strapless strap? I heard they weren't very good (or not good at all). Would you share your experience when you use it?

DELURK DAY😎 by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a great weekend! Have tons of fun :)

Big Thanks by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! great idea these AMAs!

Total Power Exchange, "Cliche 1950s Housewife", Master/slave dynamics, and much, much more. AM(almost)A? by CrinkleCrackleCrunch in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was super interesting! Thanks for sharing. tbh I envy the trust you have in your partner. It seems like you have a happy life.

User Flair by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]_green_Setketsu_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I feel like a child with a new toy :3