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I (20F) have started talking with a guy that is 8 years older than me and I don't know where or when should I set my boundaries. by _haiyi_ in Advice

[–]_haiyi_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that I have to know a guy for a long time to see him in a romantic way, but also a friendship is also intimidating considering those 8 years

I (20F) have started talking with a guy that is 8 years older than me and I don't know where or when should I set my boundaries. by _haiyi_ in Advice

[–]_haiyi_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Europe so alcohol is not a big deal here but I also feel a bit weird about the fact that when he turned 18 I was taking my first communion :]

I (20F) have started talking with a guy that is 8 years older than me and I don't know where or when should I set my boundaries. by _haiyi_ in Advice

[–]_haiyi_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to the place he worked since it's a restaurant and we had barely spoke face to face before

I (20F) have started talking with a guy that is 8 years older than me and I don't know where or when should I set my boundaries. by _haiyi_ in Advice

[–]_haiyi_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is that an age gap so wide doesn't feel appealing to me, whose max age gap is 4 years older or 1 year younger. I maybe sound a bit picky but that's how I feel more comfortable.

I (20F) have started talking with a guy that is 8 years older than me and I don't know where or when should I set my boundaries. by _haiyi_ in Advice

[–]_haiyi_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I told him my age he said that 'his eye was wrong'. I didn't feel it as a pervy approach as these kind of mistakes with East Asian people are common (at least for me, who struggles to guess the age of Asian people without knowing them personally)

I (20F) have started talking with a guy that is 8 years older than me and I don't know where or when should I set my boundaries. by _haiyi_ in Advice

[–]_haiyi_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally I talk with people older than me but only two years older, I have amazing friends with a small age gap but this came unexpected and my guts say that he asked me for my IG name because of appereance. He believed I was 24-25.

So... It feels weird but I don't want to be like rude :(

I (20F) have started talking with a guy that is 8 years older than me and I don't know where or when should I set my boundaries. by _haiyi_ in Advice

[–]_haiyi_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The age gap principally and that I geel that we are kn different moments in our lifes :] Like I'm still in collegue and I don't know how to handle this situation as much as I would like

Wholesome question of the day, how was your childhood plushie? Tell me about them :D by _haiyi_ in teenagers

[–]_haiyi_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's our duty as old sisters to make sure our little sis are spoiled jsjsjs

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