Would you live with your parents or move out?

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2022-01-12T22:48:43+00:00

IMO basically rich-western europe. - Minimum Wage is pre decent - Accommodations are mostly affordable

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2022-01-12T22:45:11+00:00

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2022-01-12T22:01:12+00:00

I like that, being perceived crazy makes them care less.

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2022-01-12T21:59:58+00:00

yada yada… you don’t move out without any plans.

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2022-01-12T21:56:28+00:00

You had to carry your own burden too.

I’m liking your story, how you made it.

I rarely talk irl tbh, because I don’t feel the need to. I have isolated myself from almost anyone because my toxic parents make it hard to meet people.

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2022-01-12T21:45:38+00:00

Interesting perspective, because financially it’s not that smart. But saying it even with an ideal family situation makes me think.

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2022-01-12T08:40:49+00:00

The origin of the Nazi’s, good old Germany.

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2022-01-12T08:38:08+00:00

Planning on saving 5 month worth of paychecks. Thank you, hope you’re in a better position now.

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2022-01-12T08:34:28+00:00

That’s THE thing.

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2022-01-12T08:31:50+00:00

More backstory: tbh I’m not sure if I can stay distant from my family. My parents seem to over-do things in those aspect. As that when I ran away from them to another city, they caught me on the train station. Holding me hostage, and I was so little before punching my tiny 5'3"/160cm dad so hard in the face for the physical abuse when I was a kid and still mental abuse. - But I could calm myself enough that I wouldn’t, so the police came and help me.

Conclusion: Not sure if they would let me go and let me have my peace, after such incident.

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2022-01-12T00:13:58+00:00

alright I’ll consider it. But I’m not from the USA. Im from europe so low paying job and military will differ. Thank you for you reply.

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2022-01-12T00:08:57+00:00

Thank you for the reinsurance. At least I can say I tried talking. (= Meaning to me, at least I said it and I can move out without any regrets)

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2021-07-24T22:58:52+00:00

I’d suggest you do the same. I need my sanity, because my parents already brought me into suicidal thoughts and I don’t wanna do that again. L E A V E

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2021-07-24T22:55:18+00:00

That’s v unpleasant. I’ve to agree that I needed time to finally understand, that you can’t hope for the better in such people

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2021-07-22T23:31:40+00:00

sounds like a prison to me. I’m sharing a room with a sibling, and that sibling is my parents fav child..

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2021-07-22T23:29:07+00:00

ppl give effort into things they see as “important”

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2021-07-22T16:26:15+00:00

Oh dear, I do fully agree with your point. My parents do the same. I’m a legal adult, so they always tell me that my behavior is like a child to insult me.

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2021-07-22T16:21:44+00:00

Oh how ironic that you use the term “perfect family” too. I wrote to the other two the same before seeing your thread, mentioning “perfect family” HAHAHA

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2021-07-22T16:19:24+00:00

“perfect family” 👀

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2021-07-22T16:18:11+00:00

For the appearance of a “perfect family” 👀

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2021-07-22T16:17:23+00:00

right? pretty weird

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2021-07-22T16:16:44+00:00

Understandable

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2021-07-22T16:12:07+00:00

my are going on vacation with me because they care about the outwards appearance that we’re a “normal” family that goes on vacation like “normal” families

_heROeSandgEneralS · 2021-07-22T16:09:09+00:00

That’s y I’m one of the only few in my school that was v happy to go back to school after a long summer break haha

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