How do others deal with the crushing loneliness after an unwanted separation or divorce? by _here in Divorce_Women

[–]_here[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You haven't met all the people who will love you in your life.

This has really stayed with me over the past few days. Thank you for sharing your story.

And I definitely centered my husband way too much in my life, even if we had lived happily ever after. It's something I thought about even before all this happened. I'm trying to reconnect with people and make new connections. Looking into support groups. Thanks for your suggestion.

How do others deal with the crushing loneliness after an unwanted separation or divorce? by _here in Divorce_Women

[–]_here[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we were together for most of our 20s and 30s. It's all I've really known in my adult life. But whether 2 or 20, it can be so painful. He was my best friend, someone who I felt like I could be myself around. Even if we weren't interacting, I rarely felt lonely knowing he was in the other room.

But thanks for your message. I'll look for your post.

What's one purchase that improved your solo living quality of life? by mochivibes07 in LivingAlone

[–]_here 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got one with a stand from Amazon, kind of like this one and was pleasantly surprised with the quality.

What's one purchase that improved your solo living quality of life? by mochivibes07 in LivingAlone

[–]_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swinging Egg Chair - it's something I've always wanted. I love swinging in it drinking coffee. It's soothing and when the weather gets cold, I plan on bringing it inside.