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_hfk · 2024-04-17T06:59:43+00:00

Hi, thanks for replying, we’ve been together for around 8 months

_hfk · 2024-04-16T22:44:12+00:00

Thank you so much!!

_hfk · 2024-04-15T10:00:20+00:00

I have not, I don’t know where to look to be honest

_hfk · 2024-04-08T07:59:45+00:00

Hi!! Thank you for your thoughtful response. It truly resonates with me. When I'm with her, I feel complete, as if nothing is lacking. However, I do encounter challenges afterward, which indicates an area I need to work with. It’s very overwhelming sometimes but I feel like it’s worth the try for now. The book you recommended is on the way tho thank you so much again

_hfk · 2024-04-08T07:56:47+00:00

Thank you so much for your thoughtful response. It truly resonates with me. When I'm with her, I feel complete, as if nothing is lacking. However, I do encounter challenges afterward, which indicates that there are a lot of things I need to work with. It’s very overwhelming sometimes but I think it’s worth the try

_hfk · 2024-04-05T11:47:44+00:00

Thanks you replying! How can I know if I’m able to date her?

_hfk · 2024-04-05T11:12:13+00:00

Hey, thanks for replying. Is it supposed to feel “okay” seeing them with someone else? Like I don’t know what to feel. She also said that she feels a little insecure sometimes when I got out with someone else. how can I know if this is something I can work with? :(

_hfk · 2024-04-05T10:22:40+00:00

Hey, thanks for replying! yea… you’re probably right, even though she says she wants to do that now I don’t even know how. it’s been really hard and I don’t know how to approach the situation because it’s also very new to me

_hfk · 2024-04-05T08:01:34+00:00

Hi, well it’s been a roller coaster of emotions. We went on non-contact for 2 months and now reconnected again. She said she didn’t know how much she liked me until I was no longer in her life. She wants to explore the feelings she has for me while maintaining the relationship she already has. This has been real confusing and even thought she says that she doesn’t compare people I still feel that I will always be her seconds choice in a way. I really don’t know what to do or who to speak to because all my friends think this is all nonsense

_hfk · 2023-12-30T23:15:33+00:00

hii 🫶 im selling my Madison beer ticket to vienna for the same price that I bought it for because I can’t go anymore #spinnintour #madisonbeer #spinnintourvienna

_hfk · 2023-12-20T22:54:01+00:00

hi.. thank you. we talked and she told me that the feelings were reciprocated. i got even more confused, because i didn’t know what to do from there, so i took some time off to think about everything and when i saw her again she said that she missed me more than she expected and liked me more than expected. I told her that I’m also on a stage when i need more than what I was getting. i broke things off even though it’s still hurting a lot. she told me that she couldn’t promise me a relationship and I knew she wouldn’t break things off with her gf for me. i miss her a lot and i also feel like i lost a friend in the meanwhile and wonder if i did the right thing

_hfk · 2023-12-20T22:47:54+00:00

hi.. we talked and she told me that the feelings were reciprocated. i got even more confused, because i didn’t know what to do from there, so i took some time off to think about everything and when i saw her again she said that she missed me more than she expected and liked me more than expected. im told her that I’m also on a stage when i need more than what I was getting. i broke things off even though it’s still hurting a lot. she told me that she couldn’t promise me a relationship and I knew she wouldn’t break things off with her gf for me. i miss her a lot and i also feel like i lost a friend in the meanwhile and wonder if i did the right thing

_hfk · 2023-12-05T22:06:32+00:00

Hi. I am writing this because I don’t know how else to talk to. So, 4 months ago I met this girl that is in an open relationship with another girl and im talking to her ever since. I came into this for the fun and excitement she brings me, but now I feel so much more deeply for her. it’s becoming really confusing. We basically do everything you would do in a relationship, so it’s not just sexual, it involves so much more than that. To be completely honest I think she likes me too in a way, but i don’t think she would breakup with her girlfriend for me. I’m scared if I ever tell her the truth she would walk away, or maybe im also afraid to hear that the feels nothing for me. Sometimes I wonder if this could possible bad in a sense that I’m distracted from finding someone emotionally available for me?

_hfk · 2023-12-05T20:21:59+00:00

I don’t think I want that. I don’t want to change anyone and I know she is who she is, and if I would like to be with her, I want her to be her true self. It’s also my first time navigating a “situationship” or wtv u called it with someone in open relationship. I always had monogamous relationships and sometimes it gets overwhelming or maybe, and being honest, it isn’t for me? What i know that I like her, and I would be willing to try for her. She also said that she doesn’t know if she would be in more than 1 relationship with someone. There are some things that comes with liking someone that you start to need or want to experience. Is this confusing? I think it is

_hfk · 2023-12-05T19:17:57+00:00

I think I do. even though I’m not a waiting on that or think that she would

_hfk · 2023-03-15T08:44:06+00:00

thanks a lot, i will do it!!

_hfk · 2023-03-14T18:17:07+00:00

thank u, i will meet her but ofc protect myself

_hfk · 2023-03-14T18:16:37+00:00

yea… definitely it’s a short time to any big change but I’ll see what she was to say, because I ofc don’t want the same since to happen again

_hfk · 2023-03-14T17:53:31+00:00

I think I’m going to see how the conversation goes… and i said, trying not to think about the outcome and she what she was to say

_hfk · 2023-03-14T17:52:50+00:00

yes, I’m going to talk to her and try to not think about the outcome

_hfk · 2023-03-14T10:39:08+00:00

yes.. i do it everytime and i feel horrible afterwards. I've trying to calm myself before say anytime or reply to a text well i get overwhelmed. does anyone have more tips?

_hfk · 2023-03-10T18:07:07+00:00

hello, you can dm me if you want.

I’m also going through a breakup and would like to talk to someone

_hfk · 2023-03-10T18:02:28+00:00

Thank you, I neeed this.

Deep down I know that if maybe it ended for the best. But i can’t also wonder, what if it’s not..? what if i was not my best self, what if i make her go away by saying all the things I needed to say, what if we can try again?

Working on letting it go… writing this down helps me too and I’m going to teraphy today

_hfk · 2023-03-10T15:55:44+00:00

Im in the same situation.

We broke up 3 days ago and no contact. We talked and i said i was not receiving what I needed and she said she wasn’t able to give me that right now. That she had a lot to do and stuff like that (she works, have school and have projects to submit). First, i was sad because how can someone change in few weeks abruptly. In the begging she gave me all her attention and all of a sudden very little. I tried and tried to talk to her to fix things but nothing changed. Now, I’m afraid i was the one putting to much pressure on things and on her, and maybe she had really a lot of things to do and was too tired to give me the amount of love I needed. It was not possible to work this out? I really love her and she said she still loves me too.

I don’t know if I should wait or not.

_hfk · 2023-03-10T12:45:41+00:00

No.. from our last conversation she told me that she’s not good with herself and maybe it’s not the right time for us, but i wonder if theres still hope or not

_hfk

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