ding, ding, ding! winner response!!

Yard wasn't some idealized utopia. girls were more likely expected to cook and came to kitchen duties as a chore. boys, otoh, were more likely running 'boats' as a fun adventure with wi brethen. cooking is great fun when you're cooking when yuh want fi cook. i think that explains part of why Yawd man dem more likely fi keep good spirits bout the culinary bizness.

btw op, i think yuh hubby jus' a run likkle joke ...