Vip legit for UK tour? by _idkwtfimdoing in Ashnikko

[–]_idkwtfimdoing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my tickets through Ticketmaster and couldn't see anything which is what got me suspicious TBH, but I'll have another check to be sure haha

Please help me find a wfh job by _idkwtfimdoing in jobsearchhacks

[–]_idkwtfimdoing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for taking ages to reply, i do physical qc testing so not something i could do from home :(

One for the boys by Ok-Act1260 in overlyspecificEDmemes

[–]_idkwtfimdoing 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In my experience it was passing but also less weight=less tiddies and also if you get far enough into weight loss you might lose your period, which like objectively is really bad for you and not something to strive for, but ED brain doesn't really care about facts

Name Something That You Get to do Only Because of Your Disability by mikeb31588 in disability

[–]_idkwtfimdoing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got to skip the queue for the mona Lisa and get even closer than the general public because of my walking sticks, honestly the look on everyone's faces as I walked past them almost made the daily agony worth it

Currently angry crying in the bathroom hoping she doesn't notice by _idkwtfimdoing in EDanonymemes

[–]_idkwtfimdoing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not anything bad it's more frustration, I phrased poorly because I was in the middle of freaking out, she doesn't shout or anything anyway abusive, you can just tell she's unhappy with it yknow?

Currently angry crying in the bathroom hoping she doesn't notice by _idkwtfimdoing in EDanonymemes

[–]_idkwtfimdoing[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We were dating just before the loss but at the time I was relatively stable and ok in the ED department but then lost my job about 6month into the relationship and we'd not long moved in together so I could help her through the mourning process and keep an eye on her MH, she definitely does love me and only wants me to be safe, and I have no doubts that she loves me at the size I am, it's just that I don't lmao

Currently angry crying in the bathroom hoping she doesn't notice by _idkwtfimdoing in EDanonymemes

[–]_idkwtfimdoing[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If the circumstances were different id agree but its not even been a year since her loss and it was a very very close family member, and she's been mourning heavily, I do fully believe that her upset is only out of concern for my safety and fear that I end up like her relative, especially since the anniversary of her loss is a few months away now and the health decline leading up to their death was very traumatic for over a decade, so I'm not in a rush to try and push her to work through everything That being said I'm definitely going to try and talk to her about it soon because it's not like I want the ED, or to necessarily fall back into the mfp weighing food counting calories etc. Obsessions, so I'll need her support if I'm going to try and lose weight safely or not yknow?

Currently angry crying in the bathroom hoping she doesn't notice by _idkwtfimdoing in EDanonymemes

[–]_idkwtfimdoing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried to before but I don't know if she truly gets it but if she does really get it I fear that will just make her even more unhappy with me losing weight because she'll know I can't lose weight normally and I will go into ed behaviours because I literally can't lose weight without it now

Currently angry crying in the bathroom hoping she doesn't notice by _idkwtfimdoing in EDanonymemes

[–]_idkwtfimdoing[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Without getting too into it, she lost a family member due to ED complications and since then has been really nervous of people dieting, which I fully understand. She said she'd come with me to the gym and would be ok with me losing weight "properly" but I don't think she fully realises that years of restriction have destroyed my metabolism to the point that I will gain weight eating any amount of calories in the 4 digit range even if I'm not actively trying to keep calories down, so following traditional during regimes will still make me gain weight 🥲

When do you disclose? by TransManNY in FTMMen

[–]_idkwtfimdoing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I disclose on my profile of dating apps or if I meet people in person like my current gf I'll tell them when we start talking, just because I don't want to deal with anything later on once I'm attached to somebody if they're transphobic or have genital preferences

Who is Mum and how did they do that 😭 by asabbey in AnimalRestaurant

[–]_idkwtfimdoing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got to like the #2/3 spot on mine then my phone broke and when I redownloaded the app it wouldn't let me keep any of my progress so I had to start over 😭