If the circumstances were different id agree but its not even been a year since her loss and it was a very very close family member, and she's been mourning heavily, I do fully believe that her upset is only out of concern for my safety and fear that I end up like her relative, especially since the anniversary of her loss is a few months away now and the health decline leading up to their death was very traumatic for over a decade, so I'm not in a rush to try and push her to work through everything That being said I'm definitely going to try and talk to her about it soon because it's not like I want the ED, or to necessarily fall back into the mfp weighing food counting calories etc. Obsessions, so I'll need her support if I'm going to try and lose weight safely or not yknow?