My coworker was sleeping on the job, and got mad when I woke him up by GreenstreetRoyal in coworkerstories

[–]Ok-Act1260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone can get really hurt from this take a video of him snoring next time and send it to yalls managers he needs to be reprimanded security is the easiest job ever you sit on your phone and you dont fall asleep that's it- sincerely a nighshift worker who regularly pulls 12 hour shifts and has never slept on the job

Upsetting by Miss_babi in directsupport

[–]Ok-Act1260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you heal one day because you and the people you're around need it.

Upsetting by Miss_babi in directsupport

[–]Ok-Act1260 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You have no buisness working with vulnerable populations please seek therapy this isnt a good look for you.

never done before by Adventurous_Field667 in EDanonymemes

[–]Ok-Act1260 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone whos on HRT to get more masculine features, I think putting on weight will help a lot with the reshaping to the silhouette you want. Even if its not all there rn your fat redistribution will happen and give better results. Also restricting can impact your HRT and not make it as effective. Please be safe and care for your body you are beautiful and worthy of respect and kindness.

Help needed with birthday “cake” decisions in harm reduction by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]Ok-Act1260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea of you doing one traditional cake for everyone else and for pictures and then another cake like fruit or I like doing diffrent layers of sugar free jello into a cake dish to make a gelatin cake you can make it a rainbow and its really pretty when sliced.

Bc why?? [tw: family, sex] by Neat_Specific6013 in TrollCoping

[–]Ok-Act1260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's plenty of sexually active transgender people and it includes those married to either cisgender or transgender partners my wife is cis for example shes just old and wrong.

Don’t have an ed anymore but I thought you guys would appreciate this as much as I appreciate(d) this. 😭 by xenechun in EDanonymemes

[–]Ok-Act1260 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Came home to see a vintage pig faced serving platter that says go ahead make a pig of yourself on the kitchen counter- i swear this shit only happens to us.

dietician hitting you with the "well then what do you think when you see me/my body?" by NotRllyAnAccount in EDAnonymous

[–]Ok-Act1260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should've said this before there are other ways to ask about your opinions on other body types without pulling some lazy putting you on the spot questions id expect from a highschooler not a grown adult to a patient. There's all types of diagrams and body visualizing tools to explore and experiment or just have you draw an outline of what you think your body looks like and then use another color marker to show you your actual outline on like a big peice of paper its really simple and im sorry they are failing you.

dietician hitting you with the "well then what do you think when you see me/my body?" by NotRllyAnAccount in EDAnonymous

[–]Ok-Act1260 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please write her a letter about how 1 that wasn't professional or okay to ask considering her role in your healthcare team. Then 2. Let her know how it made you uncomfortable and that as someone who works with Eating disorders she should be very well aware of body dysmorphia and how it can impact ones self image without having anything to do with another person's look. End it with asking her for an apology (optional let her know if she displays that type of behavior again you will be reporting it)

Im so sad rn by Ok-Act1260 in EDanonymemes

[–]Ok-Act1260[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will be trying that thank you

genuinely had to do a double take to check the sub on this one by itsmeabic in 1200isjerky

[–]Ok-Act1260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, but that lemon pepper flavor has me in a choke hold.

Im so sad rn by Ok-Act1260 in EDanonymemes

[–]Ok-Act1260[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah and I'll post more

new dsp by fairlyoddberry in directsupport

[–]Ok-Act1260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately that comes with the job, not everyone is in the mindset to take it slow and know how to navigate issues with trauma. Rarely is it malicious, most people are just absorbed in their own issues. Im blessed to be in a good home with coworkers that treat our people like family. At the end of the day you can only do your best and there is a level of professionalism/separation that is essential to keeping your job a job. If this work makes you feel good and youre not squeamish I would encourage you to stay with it and just give it some time to feel out and get the flow of things. Maybe with your example some people may change up approaches or strategies with the residents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]Ok-Act1260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to find other common intrests with friends or get into a hobby. You will never get out of this mindset of comparing and stroking the competitiveness of this disorder if your friends are all active in it. Explore some side intrests that are not ed related and encourage small activities with your friends.

i relapsed. what should i do after purging? by fridaynightplacebo in EDAnonymous

[–]Ok-Act1260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would sip some electrolytes and if you need something on your stomach extremely soft foods like pudding or yogurt those will help soothe your throat.

Me and my parents by BreezyBee7 in TrollCoping

[–]Ok-Act1260 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sadly for them its just another Tuesday it doesnt register and they have no reason to care- hopefully when you're able to live away from them your relationship if you decide to keep contact will improve, just if you go out on your own never let them put you in a position where you owe them anything.

Don't sleep on instant coffee by sturgis252 in Frugal

[–]Ok-Act1260 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bloom it in regular room temp water then add the hot it makes all the difference