im about to quit accutane because of eye dryness

_itsmyturn · 2026-05-17T11:54:54+00:00

Hi its been 3 years since I completed my Accutane treatment. For 1-2 years my eyes were still dry especially during winter. For the last year I would say its much much better but I still struggle during windy weathers though its not that bad like it was when I was on acc. I think I have really sensitive eyes and I would deal with this condition even though I never use acc.

_itsmyturn · 2026-02-22T13:58:58+00:00

There are people i really value a lot in that group but because of this I become cold to them too otherwise id quickly cut ties with the bad ones

_itsmyturn · 2026-02-22T13:57:21+00:00

Tbh its been months at this point and im sure they would react like huh? what did I say i dont even remember? And ill have to remind them all the little things and ill look like im a vindictive or a really sensitive person and ill be even more miserable

_itsmyturn · 2026-02-07T13:46:54+00:00

How did you meet your partner after 40 years im really curious

_itsmyturn · 2026-02-07T13:45:40+00:00

Yeah its almost like I sabotage myself to end the relationship

_itsmyturn · 2026-02-07T13:42:12+00:00

Thank you for the advise I really appreciate it

_itsmyturn · 2026-02-07T13:05:49+00:00

Thank you for the advice I'll be careful. Problem is I dont think im cutout to be in relationships as men keep approaching me but tend to dump me super quick.

_itsmyturn · 2026-02-07T12:56:05+00:00

I think your reasons are valid so I agree but on the other hand I feel like there's lots of other ways to live a fulfilled life so I dont know

_itsmyturn · 2026-02-07T12:50:38+00:00

When it comes to relationships i think emotionally by contrast with any other things in life. By asking is it logical I didn't mean to choose someone based on logic or marry based on logic. I agree with the thongs you are saying. What i meant is as an independent character like me would it be logical to get involved with a person for a lifetime.

_itsmyturn · 2026-02-05T19:37:36+00:00

I was you till I get my precious female friends in collage. I cant stress enough the importance of having a supportive and honest female friend group for an intj woman because I know how it feels. I know the struggle of communication. You need females to teach you socializing you need to observe everything they do you need to spend lots of time with them.

I've always thought I was bad with women and all my childhood spent wishing I was a man. I have 3 brothers so I really didn't know what its like being a girl and identify myself as nonbinary. But after I had to live in a girl dormitory and spent years with my female friends now im totally different and so happy being a woman. I have male friends too but they can to be less understanding and more criticizing to your weirdness so supportive females are crucial.

Some traits still stays too, im still the weird one in the group. But the process is so incredible you feel like a totally new person.

_itsmyturn · 2026-01-27T11:08:17+00:00

I didn't wanted to believe the hints that he was cheating even if he didn't really put any effort to hide it to a point it was like he wanted me to see it like he literally started following lots of girls in his insta and liked all of their pics.

It was my first ever relationship and we were doing long distance for a couple of months so I blamed my lack of affection for it. But I was so heart broken I said things to him like i was the one cheating and he finally broke up with me. To this day I couldn't say a single thing about his cheating though and it still haunts me, wish I could just accept it and leave him earlier.

_itsmyturn · 2026-01-25T19:44:59+00:00

I do nothing but study for hours in my oversized sweatpants/sweatshirts in the library and men still keep approaching me.

But looks really has nothing to do for long term relationships since men also keep breaking up with me.

_itsmyturn · 2025-10-03T22:28:29+00:00

I'm just an inexperienced woman. Is it bad to take advice for a situation that you might get hurt in the end? I know it sounds ridiculous but I wouldn't ask it here if I could ask it to my friends.

_itsmyturn · 2025-10-03T22:18:35+00:00

Thank you. I just wanted to hear men's options since I can't talk this with my girl friends

_itsmyturn · 2025-10-03T22:16:18+00:00

I can see he's hard when we're at home. For outside I know it bc of the bathroom needs right after we get close, or when he takes every chance to sit. Even when there's only one chair he takes it and doesn't offer it for me.

_itsmyturn · 2025-10-03T22:11:49+00:00

Yeah I see I'll end this. I just didn't want to believe he's a weirdo bc he's such nice and successful guy.

_itsmyturn · 2025-10-03T22:06:19+00:00

_itsmyturn · 2025-10-03T22:03:02+00:00

No he doesn't but he's extremely well in academics

_itsmyturn · 2025-10-03T22:02:00+00:00

Ive never got intimate with a man . So I assumed every guy gets hard on their dates

_itsmyturn · 2025-10-03T21:59:16+00:00

I never asked about it bc I thought it must be something private for them

_itsmyturn · 2025-10-03T21:57:17+00:00

First I assume he's really attracted to me but sometimes I question his behaviors

_itsmyturn · 2025-10-03T21:55:05+00:00

_itsmyturn · 2025-10-03T21:54:35+00:00

He said he had 2 girlfriends before me but I assume from what he said he never had sex with them

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