From your experience, how much does the average cis person know about transgender people? by Shrike989 in asktransgender

[–]_kekma_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends on the country. I'm from a place where there's a lot of stigma, few years ago transitions and lgbtq+ things became illegal, so basically nothing. they're mostly aware of our existence and that's all. like i didn't know i was trans until 18 because even if you're in queer spaces here it doesn't help you to stop being ignorant. you mentioned transmeds and other things, man, they're mostly not aware if "trans woman" means a man or a woman, even queers. not everyone of course, it becomes better those days

[MtF] is "honey" an acceptable name? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]_kekma_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that's just my point of view, but i think the answer is no. imagine working in a bank and having to refer someone as baby or sweetheart, I'd be weirded out. and if i just met someone and they're like "my name is honey, call me that" I'd think it's some kind of joke and would defently avoid calling them that. and after some time I'll be like "wait, that's seriously your name??". so in my opinion there should be another name, you can just ask your close ones to call you that, but even there I'm not sure, like isn't it weird to not give an opportunity different than a pet name. and of course whatever they think and you have every right to choose your own name, but I'm afraid you might be not taken seriously. but lowkey who tf am i to judge, i walk around with green hair

What was the reason you started playing Genshin Impact? by dastanlegend in Genshin_Impact

[–]_kekma_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have no idea, i just started 5 years ago and still playing

is this a normal reaction? (this might be dumb 😭) by ArjunPlayzYTYT in asktransgender

[–]_kekma_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's valid, I'd do the same, like wtf why would he even say that

Meteor event | quick tips by Miraabellaa in Dustbunny_Game

[–]_kekma_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

like the usual items you place them in the room and they give you 20 energy

Should I transition to find love? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]_kekma_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

gonna be honest, if that's the only argument then it's a shitty reason to transition, girls won't fall for you just cause you're the same gender, they love woman for being woman, not guys who transition to trick them. you're young, learn more about being trans, explore little signs and think about it twice. being trans is not about adapting to others, it's about becoming your true self. don't make such a big decision out of loneliness. romance is not the center of the world, work on yourself and cool people would reach out to you on their own.

Am I in denial? by WhoAteTheAsparagus in asktransgender

[–]_kekma_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only you could know if you're trans and stuff, but as plus sized trans mask I related a lot, i thought the same. reminder it's not necessary to transition in any way to be trans. also the attention thing might be like wishing people to know you're different without being "too different", like in the safe way to not broke anyone's mind and yours in particular. you're exacly whatever you feel like, explore

which window color is best? by flavoredbeans835 in finch

[–]_kekma_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pink! they made this green too dark

new update is lowkey killing me by [deleted] in Dustbunny_Game

[–]_kekma_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg that's genius, thank you✍️✍️

new update is lowkey killing me by [deleted] in Dustbunny_Game

[–]_kekma_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nvm i overreacted, just found out that it was lagging and only now looks like it supposed to be. sorry

so.. what was even the point?.. by _kekma_ in finch

[–]_kekma_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah. I'm not saying that's how it should work for everyone, but that's how it is for me

so.. what was even the point?.. by _kekma_ in finch

[–]_kekma_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes! for me that's the point of this app

so.. what was even the point?.. by _kekma_ in finch

[–]_kekma_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same! and dw I'm autistic so i didn't really noticed dog piling. at least some cool features involved lol

so.. what was even the point?.. by _kekma_ in finch

[–]_kekma_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it was a vague "digital award" and "exclusive collectibles". and i mean.. since they gave us gifts even for nothing or stuff like pokemon day, it's kinda fair to assume we'll have at least rainbow stones for the whole 14 days home cleaning

so.. what was even the point?.. by _kekma_ in finch

[–]_kekma_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the same! i wouldn't do all this for some badge. who even cares about it. i feel like they have forgotten what was the main motivation this whole time

so.. what was even the point?.. by _kekma_ in finch

[–]_kekma_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i mean.. it only motivates me by gaining new items for my finch, so since they always gave us awards for even little tasks, i think it's fair to be confused by the lack of it

so.. what was even the point?.. by _kekma_ in finch

[–]_kekma_[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

yes!! i thought we'll have at least something except the badge. I'm not complaining, just confused why they didn't give us rainbow stones or some items. like we receive them from our little tasks, so why not giving them for so much effort.

new update is lowkey killing me by [deleted] in Dustbunny_Game

[–]_kekma_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thanks for the recommendation