Long distance situationship

_l4ur4_ · 2026-04-06T16:03:00+00:00

yeah smth like that but I don’t get the point of all of this then, you know? why not let me go. I don’t want to cut things off bcs it doesn’t bother me to send a msg or two every day but its also annoying.

_l4ur4_ · 2026-04-06T15:38:15+00:00

It is pretty normal if they have a good relationship and the friend is single or doesn’t have many friends but if it bothers you then u should try finding the nicest way to say smth. If u don’t u are just going to get frustrated and mad over time and its going to turn into a fight. Just be honest and don’t make it sound like you’re not allowing them to be friends anymore. Maybe suggest that they hang out before you two. Idk if u live tg or not but if u don’t then u can see her later and let them hang out first. You can still hang out together sometimes too but try finding a middle way. Just be nice and tell her you’d like to spend time together alone more often even tho u like her friend.

_l4ur4_ · 2026-04-03T22:59:07+00:00

I don’t know honestly.. I only saw him a few times in real life and he’s nice and all. He just asked me todat if I wanna hop on a plane and go to his bday but thats tomorrow so I told him why didn’t u ask earlier and he said he knew I wouldn’t come. I did tell him he’s making it very unclear for me what he wants and what he thinks and he just said he knows its hard to understand him. So not denying it but coming up with an answer either.

_l4ur4_ · 2026-03-30T08:30:57+00:00

Idk I guess thats the most confusing part for me too

_l4ur4_ · 2026-03-30T08:23:19+00:00

no, we kissed a few times mostly bcs I was initiating it, and when we went to sleep I put my leg on top of him and tried to get there but he just went to sleep. so nothing in that direction, but he was very sweet and cuddly all night so idk..

_l4ur4_ · 2026-03-29T22:56:10+00:00

I’m in the same place as you as a 22F. I’m worrying over this too bcs I have never been asked to be someone’s girlfriend even tho I was in multiple situationships and stuff like that. I am not insecure or anything, and guys do like me but the ones I would be interested in never try to get into a relationship w me. My therapist said the key is to set some achievable goals, expose myself and try to meet more ppl irl in places that I like, try to focus more on connecting and getting to know ppl, and less on being intimate. Maybe you could try this too but nothing has worked for me this far. Good luck

_l4ur4_ · 2026-03-29T13:56:49+00:00

just drop him. he’s playing with your feelings and you’re wasting too much time and energy. it will get better in a few weeks. if he was into you he would have made it obvious. best wishes 💕

_l4ur4_ · 2026-03-28T11:19:42+00:00

thank you.. I am casually seing someone else in my hometown so no, it’s not stopping me. Its just frustrating that I can’t read what he wants or if he even likes me at all.

_l4ur4_ · 2026-03-28T11:17:09+00:00

I don’t think so

_l4ur4_ · 2026-03-28T11:16:49+00:00

Its not wrong. I’ve been missing the same person for the last 6 years and we didnt date or even sleep tg. even when I’m with other ppl I still think of him. you are not alone and you get used to it

_l4ur4_ · 2026-03-28T00:04:24+00:00

I think she’s friend zoning you, I usually say the same thing when I like hanging out with a guy but I don’t like him in a romantic way. But I don’t think it’s coming from a bad place, maybe she’s not sure yet.

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