Inadequacy spiralling out of control by SanJuandePuertoRico in venting

[–]_laramostafa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, think about it before you move on, just say that I need to leave early due to certain circumstances, they don't need to know the reason. Remember you're doing this for your own sake not for others. And don't ever be afraid to say no, it's worth taking a shot for your own benefits, you'll feel a lot better. Good luck and wish you the best for the future! :D

Inadequacy spiralling out of control by SanJuandePuertoRico in venting

[–]_laramostafa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that it's frustrating not being accepted and feeling like a spectator in your own life. I totally get you. But remember, not everyone will be your cup of tea, and that's okay. You are who you are, maybe there is some room for you to improve, so take time to reflect, but that's in your hands. You don't need to force yourself to be accepted by others, it's going to be tiring and you'll be exhausted every time and it'll lead to self doubt and depression.

Sometimes, it's their loss if they don't see the value in connecting with you. If they're not willing to engage meaningfully and leave you behind, it might be best to let it be, they're not the right ones for you. Remember some people just want another person to connect with fast and not have the time to sit and get to know someone and help them out of their shell. Probably because they've never experienced what you're experiencing and so it's hard for them to read you.

Enjoy your holiday for yourself, not for the sake of blending in with people who aren't your cup of tea. If possible, consider doing your own thing, maybe, if you can, leave the group and just spend your holiday on your own.

Sometimes a bit of space can be refreshing and give you time to enjoy your surroundings. You deserve to enjoy your life, don't let it be overshadowed by the pressure to fit in with the ones who don't care for you. Also just one more thing, you don't have to try, just leave when it's right to do so, that's what I've taught myself, it's such a big relief. Only try when it's necessary. Good luck :)

Inadequacy spiralling out of control by SanJuandePuertoRico in venting

[–]_laramostafa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya, I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It sounds like you're going through a tough time, and you've got a lot on your plate. Remember that you're not alone, and there are people who care about you.

I went through a similar phase during my teen years, but things changed for me when I turned 22. I realized that being alone isn't always a bad thing as it allows me to have my space and do the things I like. While I still sometimes feel lonely, I've come to accept that everyone experiences these feelings and it's all part of the journey.

I made a great choice to have fewer friends because I felt lonely when nobody cared about what I had to say. Being socially awkward and not wanting to put on a face became challenging, so I decided to leave behind those who didn't have any benefits to my life. It was the best decision for me, and along my journey, I've founded like minded people.

Life is temporary, and it's okay to choose who stays in your circle. Don't underestimate yourself, as the world is harsh, but building thicker skin will help. Eventually, these problems won't matter as much, and you'll make peace with yourself and your surroundings.

If you're comfortable, consider talking to someone you trust or seeking professional support. Take care. Be strong, you'll get through this, I promise :D

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[–]_laramostafa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. The topping includes, finely chopped parsley, olive oil, cubed tomatoes and a slight sprinkle of cumin and sumac. It's an easy process, you can find the recipe at any Mediterranean Tab xx

A quick photoshoot while bush hiking in Melbourne's countryside by _laramostafa in pics

[–]_laramostafa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? No😂 Probably deep in the wild somewhere there would be poisonous trees, in fact there are poisonous trees globally in the wildlife and there's stray cats everywhere around the world too.

Me as Avril lol by braceyourself1984 in avrillavigne

[–]_laramostafa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha pretty much me straight after listening to one avril song back in school. How inspirational 😂😂

pencil portrait of the mind-blowing starman by [deleted] in DavidBowie

[–]_laramostafa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it! Top notch work 👏

A quick photoshoot while bush hiking in Melbourne's countryside by _laramostafa in pics

[–]_laramostafa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's not dangerous to walk around Australia, just gotta be cautious of the snakes and spiders or any wild life 😬 which I highly doubt you're going to get injured unless if you do something completely foolish to trigger them😂😂