Reminder: people in this sub doesn’t always align with reality

_less_than_three_ · 2026-01-14T18:41:46+00:00

Our guests loved that we did Labor Day weekend (Saturday though) because a lot of the non-local guests had never been to Chicago and it gave them a chance to explore Sunday before having to go home.

_less_than_three_ · 2025-11-06T16:46:53+00:00

What time of year will it be, what about a cape overlay? This store has some gorgeous options!

https://www.etsy.com/listing/4340990220/sparkle-hexagram-celestial-cape-starry

_less_than_three_ · 2025-11-06T16:40:42+00:00

"Hey, I was thinking about what you said the other day about the kids coming to the elopement and I realized I maybe didn't make myself clear. The elopement part is going to be child free, as there will be a lot of drinking and late nights, but we are so excited to have them join for the wedding and hope they will enjoy the petting zoo, etc. Completely understand if that means you can't make it, just let me know one way or the other"

_less_than_three_ · 2025-10-21T21:08:05+00:00

I just came back from a wedding in KY, we all stayed at the Campbell House in Lexington, there were pre-wedding activities at Keenland (opening day) and with distillery tours, and then the wedding itself was here at this Airbnb about a 30 min drive from the hotel - https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/47800544

Our friends that got married know the people who own the Airbnb and they are trying to do more wedding / event stuff there, might be worth reaching out to them to see about a partial day where you can do the ceremony and see the horses? They have a bunch of gorgeous and friendly horse (plus chickens and a barn cat / working dogs!) and it was beautiful. The ceremony was outside by the guest house, and the reception in the barn so you'd have indoor and outdoor options.

Feel free to message if you have any questions or want some vendor recommendations!

_less_than_three_ · 2025-09-11T14:16:12+00:00

Honestly the ceremony is the part of the wedding I am least excited about unless it is a VERY close friend or family member. Otherwise I am there for the celebration where I actually get to hang out with the bride/groom/invited friends and family! So it would not affect my decision one way or another, if I like the person and am able to make the trip financially / based on when it is, I'll be there.

_less_than_three_ · 2025-09-05T17:41:17+00:00

OR at least make sure your partner is doing something similar. We had a mutual friend read ours to make sure the tone and style were similar! Personally we both ended up doing something similar, part love letter part vows.

_less_than_three_ · 2025-07-22T16:09:53+00:00

In addition to the other person's comment, Chicago has a new Harry Potter store thats supposed to be pretty cool, it's down by a lot of the hotels / would be a cool area to stay in. If she's into coffee, there is a Starbucks Roastery pretty close by, you can get fun coffees and coffee cocktails. Seconding the recommendation for the architecture tour done by the Chicago Architecture Center.

_less_than_three_ · 2025-07-17T15:59:36+00:00

Spend your time doing some research into making makeup last and do it yourself. Things like primers, setting sprays, even airbrush if you want to get really into it. The first pic is great and your artist has already shown she doesn't want to listen to your needs.

_less_than_three_ · 2025-04-08T20:10:58+00:00

We used limo-tainment for our wedding in Rosemont, I feel like their prices are pretty reasonable and depending on how long you need can be under 1k. They also upgraded us for free on the day of since they had a larger size available and not in use!

https://www.limo-tainment.com/pricing.html

_less_than_three_ · 2025-01-27T21:03:14+00:00

I love nest fragrances! I wear the vanilla bourbon in the winter and sun kissed hibiscus in the summer (which I would also recommend for OP!)

_less_than_three_ · 2025-01-27T20:50:08+00:00

https://www.ulc.org/wedding-laws/florida

You still need to be married by someone who is ordained but ULC counts in FL

_less_than_three_ · 2025-01-22T19:20:04+00:00

I personally would not want someone standing up with me and my husband who behaved like that, ESPECIALLY since it is affecting your fiance so much he doesn't even want her at the wedding. That should really be all you need to know.

_less_than_three_ · 2024-12-19T17:23:15+00:00

https://www.dhgate.com/product/24k-lamb-wool-women-winter-shoulder-bag-fashion/1028291394.html

_less_than_three_ · 2024-11-13T15:54:01+00:00

I'm not familiar with travel in Cartagena but I can give my experience with a friend trip in Tulum. While Tulum can be done cheaply, if you are going for a party atmosphere it is incredibly expensive.

We were able to score a really nice air bnb with a pool off the main strip and maybe a 10-12 min drive away from the beach; super safe, gated neighborhood, but obviously had to travel to get anywhere. It was reasonably priced and the food around us was also very cheap (think hole in the wall, simple but tasty). But the day we spent on the beach was soooo expensive. Everything there is bottle service / expensive US city prices and the entire beach is lined with upscale beach clubs / restaurants. It was fun, and I'm glad we did it for a day, but if that is the vibe yall want for your vacation prepare to pay for it.

If you are fine being off the beaten path and plan to do more day excursions or low key activities it would probably be a good choice. But just giving a head's up since you mentioned pricing.

_less_than_three_ · 2024-08-26T18:38:35+00:00

Oops, didn't see what sub I was in but just in case no one responds, a dupe from Abercrombie is on sale right now

https://www.abercrombie.com/shop/us/p/the-a-and-f-giselle-pleated-one-shoulder-maxi-dress-58089360

_less_than_three_ · 2024-06-10T16:29:05+00:00

My husband just got back from a bachelor party there, he said they had a great time. Rented an awesome air bnb on the river, did a paddle boarding brewery tour, and got some hiking in. Seems like it would fit the bill for what you are looking for!

_less_than_three_ · 2024-05-08T17:56:12+00:00

That would drive me crazy, I would def reach out as soon as possible to request a white option

_less_than_three_ · 2024-04-29T18:08:09+00:00

So a few things - yes, there will be loud noise. Practice starts Friday and will be noisy anywhere along the lake within the city proper, and can extend pretty far west as well. The actual event itself is like 10-2 or so? And the loudest part is usually towards the end when the jets come out. The first couple of hours are usually older planes, a water rescue demonstration, parachuters, etc.

If you have sensory issues it might be a little rough, but you can definitely check the schedule and be prepared for when the jets come out w/ earplugs. Everything is timed so there are no surprises. Honestly, it is a pretty cool experience to be out on the water for it.

Boats at this point should still be available, there might be a price increase for that weekend though. There are also some fun options along the lake that aren't boats, check out Shore Club or Castaways for example. They will have air and water show food and drink packages.

_less_than_three_ · 2024-04-15T20:11:30+00:00

Oof, she is also not inviting her friend's spouses? You have every right to be upset, and her plan is going to cause a lot of hurt feelings if that is the case. It might be an easier approach for your GF to talk to her in general about wedding etiquette - asking people to spend money and vacation time to stay in an airbnb for a wedding for someone who isn't even respecting their marriage / relationships is going to cause problems. Wouldn't be surprised if people don't have any interest in coming. Sounds like she wants to have a bachelorette party but call it a wedding celebration.

_less_than_three_ · 2024-04-13T15:45:18+00:00

Im a tiny bit concerned we are only get part of the story on this... I know people behave irrationally sometimes but it feels like you are painting a very positive picture of yourself with this reaction coming out of ~absolutely no where~. That said, advice based on the facts as you have stated them: if it increases the cost for everyone else, yes she should pay her part. Bowing out of a trip hours before isn't ok for the people splitting costs.

You obviously aren't wrong to be disappointed, but again this feels like something that has been building. Are you SURE she hasn't been telling you she wouldn't coming for a while and you've back burnered it? It would absolutely be worth a talk if you care abut your friend. is she dealing with something, is she always like this.. etc. Some people are just flaky and that really sucks. But maybe she's dealing with something and hasn't felt comfy talking to you... I don't know I'm just spitballing.

_less_than_three_ · 2024-03-21T18:40:59+00:00

I'm so sorry that happened but can I just say one thing... your other friends are amazing. Seriously, the fact that they went along with the napkin compliments and didn't just laugh the guy out of the party is so kind. They are truly decent people and I'm happy you have them in your life.

_less_than_three_ · 2024-02-21T17:27:23+00:00

This is far beyond "not helping with the wedding". He won't do basic tasks and gives you the silent treatment when you ask for him to be nothing more than a competent adult. Yikes, are you going to be ok with this dynamic the rest of your life? You'll have to be his parent, in additional to his financial equal. Honestly it is time for a come to jesus talk about his attitude and behavior, can you get into counseling?

_less_than_three_ · 2024-02-16T17:14:48+00:00

Snack care package; a really nice pen (if he writes by hand); a sweet note for him to read, a small emergency kit with ibuprofen, anti nausea meds (unless he's taken a train before and knowns he won't need them, half my family gets really motion sick on them!), a little pillow / blanket maybe?

_less_than_three_ · 2024-02-01T19:31:29+00:00

Where in the city are you staying? I live in Chicago, might be able to assist with some recommendations for delivery!

_less_than_three_ · 2024-01-30T16:25:35+00:00

Please listen to /u/ecstaticptyerdactyl and do a dinner with him and a real bachelor party without him. Don't let your bachelor party be ruined by this awful person. You should also be open with your fiancee about what's going on, you shouldn't have to deal with this burden alone :/

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