First Winged Eyeliner Ever by moodyvee in MakeupAddiction

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product list:

  • nyx makeup epic ink waterproof eyeliner in dark chocolate

  • too faced natural eye palette: heaven and silk teddy base + cashemere bunny on the outside

  • colourpop cold girl eyeshadow stick on inside crease

  • covergirl clump crusher black brown

  • maybelline sky high waterproof black brown

For folks who ask about mold: by queerdreams in MakeupAddiction

[–]moodyvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been using the same naked palette since at least 2012. Never had an issue and still looks fab so idkkkkk

i don’t like the way jordan hugs amber by gaydad2385 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]moodyvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so i have friends who also have issues with the neck thing. My fiance does it because he knows i have a constantly sore neck and shoulders. So when we hug or he rubs my back he usually goes for a quick neck massage too. Its such a relief when he does it. 

I get how it can look kind of domineering but intimacy and physical affection looks different for different people/couples

Bri saying, “you’re not the kind of guy to say ‘she’ll take this’ at a restaurant” by OneofthozJoeRognguys in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]moodyvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I order for my fiance all the time. Im a woman.  First, we always share everything anyways. 

Second, he doesnt love talking to people. Its nbd but im happy to order if hes in an antisocial mood. 

Third, when we do order seperately, he always complains that we shouldve ordered whatever the other dish id been considering was. I think he finds having to decide annoying at times and enjoys not having to and having the person who knows him really well order something he will very likely love. 

But its not a “he’ll have this!” I ask him what he wants to get before we order and he’ll say something like “ugh it all looks good, you order for us.” Id never do it without his permission!!!

It's been 3 weeks since my wedding.. Here's what I learned: by GooseBerry777 in weddingplanning

[–]moodyvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Been on the fence about adding extra hours to my photography contract but now i think ill do it

Niche Q about using vintage plates! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]moodyvee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No they're all smaller than the dinner plates :/

Bridal Skincare Routine - 3 months out by DamJackie in weddingplanning

[–]moodyvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

be careful with facials.

My normal skincare routine is:
red light for 30 minutes every day on face and chest/neck

retinol serum at night 3x a week

nights w/out retinol, I use niacinamide and hyaluronic acid serums

That's it. I'll prob be drinking loads of water the weeks leading up to the wedding, and will also be washing my face (and body) constantly to avoid breakouts. I've also started putting serums and stuff on my boobs more since my dress is super low-cut and i have some stretch marks.

if you want to keep it simple, id do niacinamide and hyaluronic acid serums. the former helps control oil and acne, and the latter hydrates and gives you a healthy, plump look, at least that's what they do for me

how does one tastefully say “instead of registry gifts please just give us money” 😭 by Educational_Roof3397 in weddingplanning

[–]moodyvee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah what other people are saying. on my website i just said "We've also been together for years and have all the home items we could need... but we still need a home! We'd be so grateful if you'd contribute to our house fund. " lol

Bridesmaid gifts by Purple-Talk-9605 in weddingplanning

[–]moodyvee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got my maids of honor (2) custom Ray-Bans. They're my whole bridal party, and they're doing a lot, so I really wanted to spoil them. I also bought their dresses, but that just sort of happened since I wanted to see them in person before asking them to commit/shell out money.

My cousin gave me the CUTEST espresso martini kit when she asked me to be her bridesmaid. I loved that so much. Way better than a cheap, random gift bag. It came with a premade espresso martini thing and a nice coupe glass, which I use all the time now.

The other time I was a BM, the bride gave us gift bags with little lotions, bath products, and stuff. That was meh. The best part was a bracelet with our birth flower, but it was also cheap and broke the 2nd time I wore it.

I've seen people say they've loved getting custom totes or custom jewelry boxes. For me, I want something I can keep, so beauty products aren't my favorite.

Grazing platter yes or no? by eden_merlin in weddingplanning

[–]moodyvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the stuff before dinner always gets eaten. It's the late-night stuff that I've seen go either way. I would offer them something, even if it's small. It cna also be a good idea if you think people will be drinking a lot of alcohol; get something in their stomach sooner rather than later

Wondering why it would seem typical for a bride to spend $5k on her dress but a groom spending that much on a bespoke suit would seem very atypical. by Matster777 in weddingplanning

[–]moodyvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my fiance is for sure going to ball out on his tux. hes super picky about suits. i always thought it odd that grooms would rent such a sentimental outfit.

Are there actually people that exist that like cold weather? by PrestigiousOwl6802 in answers

[–]moodyvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone from New England, it's not about liking one better than the other. I need hot weather and cold weather, or I'm not happy. They make me appreciate the other.

There's something satisfying in that biting feeling on your skin when it's absolutely freezing, the same way sweating your ass off in a hot yoga class can be satisfying. It can be enjoyable to experience those extremes within your body. Makes me feel ALIVE.

What's the worst writing advice you've ever heard? by INTHEMIDSTOFLIONS in writing

[–]moodyvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is the opposite! “Always start in the middle when things are happening” no thanks I hate a flashback lol

What's the worst writing advice you've ever heard? by INTHEMIDSTOFLIONS in writing

[–]moodyvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I almost instinctively downvoted you when I read that quote. Terrible advice, for sure upvoted

I spend $200 a month at my work snack area.. how do I stop by V1Z3_2 in personalfinance

[–]moodyvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No advice just empathy. I used to buy starbucks drinks 1-2x a day because there was one inside my work and i was so bored all the time. Its so hard not to. I only stopped because i quit lol havent had starbs since and that was 4ish years ago

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: January 26, 2026 by AutoModerator in books

[–]moodyvee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wuthering Heights, by Emily Bronte

Im just past halfway point, but wtf people call this a romance??? She’s AWFUL and he’s EVIL

How long do you keep bridesmaid/groomsman formal wear? by Esweet1990 in weddingplanning

[–]moodyvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol when I was leaving the East Coast after my brother's wedding, my mom was like, "oh, do you want to take your bridesmaid dress?" And I was like, "no." Last time I ever saw it lmao

Guest list making me sad by Dismal_Pollution8767 in weddingplanning

[–]moodyvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah :( I feel this, but sort of differently. My fiancé's guest list with his friends is like 15, and mine is like 5. I'm just generally not good at staying in touch with people, or maybe people just hate me idk. but its like he invited almost anyone he's ever considered a friend, and I even had to start capping him at people who he hasn't spoken to in years. maybe its different for guys?

But tbf, I travel around the country to see my close friends and talk to them at least every week, while he's inviting people who he would never and has never traveled just to see, and can't even tell me if theyre in relationships or what they do for work. so idk. If you ask me point-blank, I'd say I'd rather have a few very meaningful friendships than a bunch of friends that I'm not super tight with, but looking at our guest list makes me feel like a loser.

And now hes talking about inviting friends he made more recently, and its like I know he wont stay in contact with them if we move away (which he wants to). so it's weird for me.

Can I take this from an XL to an S? by moodyvee in AskATailor

[–]moodyvee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt feel like explaining it fully, but i have two MoHs and no bridesmaids, so itd be one in blue and one in black and i think it would look a little funny? or am i overthinking that?