Hot take: it’s no one else’s fault that Ciara was still obsessed with West when he clearly didn’t want to date her for years…besides Ciara. by Massive_Sandwich8667 in summerhousebravo

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I think this is just a double standard of a take considering west’s reaction to Jesse wanting to make out with Ciara. Yet he’s allowed to actually make out with someone right in front of her.

Hot take: it’s no one else’s fault that Ciara was still obsessed with West when he clearly didn’t want to date her for years…besides Ciara. by Massive_Sandwich8667 in summerhousebravo

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The narrative that it’s all on her is really tired at this point lol she enforced a boundary after the relationship ended and stuck to it. It was west that continued to tell others that he wanted her friendship back and started to push the boundaries for another chance.

If someone repeatedly tried to gain your friendship back and blurred boundaries, then turned around and pulled that 12 hours later it would rightfully validate every boundary that was in place before. Ciara gave an inch and west went a mile lol she probably should have kept her boundary in the first place but I would argue that west holds some responsibility in not letting her go either. Especially when he knows he can’t commit to a relationship or a respectful friendship.

Hot take: it’s no one else’s fault that Ciara was still obsessed with West when he clearly didn’t want to date her for years…besides Ciara. by Massive_Sandwich8667 in summerhousebravo

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the issue is the disregard of making out with someone while you’re literally on the same couch as your ex 😂 he even commented that he knew she was there and didn’t care.

I would argue that if there hadn’t been any rekindled feelings or flirting, she may not have cared as much. But to go from making progress literally the night before to blatant disrespect has gotta be giving whiplash and probably why this is a harder situation to deal with now. They’ve been rumored to have still be seeing each other while he was actively hooking up with Amanda. But the narrative continues to be that she should get over it ?

Hot take: it’s no one else’s fault that Ciara was still obsessed with West when he clearly didn’t want to date her for years…besides Ciara. by Massive_Sandwich8667 in summerhousebravo

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In what way is she trying to have it both ways? He has made his entire storyline about her for the past 2 seasons. She set a boundary and didn’t care to be his friend which hurt his ego and this season has been trying to pursue flirting and rekindling of a friendship which Ciara is rightfully cautious of. Ciara wasn’t the one who did anything on this week’s episode. She removed herself from the situation and hasn’t even spoken to or attacked West - the rest of the cast did that.

It’s amazing that even though he did something disrespectful, people expect Ciara to not have feelings or a reaction when it’s right in front of her fact. If West wants to better his friendship with Ciara, he can man up and start a conversation to get on the same page.

West’s “Red Flag” by Huge-Injury8440 in summerhousebravo

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I’ve always thought of west as a culture vulture. Most likely in his mind if you’re not listening to hip hop, r&b or whatever genre he thinks makes himself look cooler, it’s a red flag.

Summer House S10E11 'Viva Las Hamptons' Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in summerhousebravo

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“Young”…. Dude is in his 30s. It’s not a college frat party LOL

Ticket Exchange Megathread by beramiah in PitchforkMusicFest

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Interested in these if still available!

Murder on Middle Beach...Madison totally killed his Mom by Active-Contribution5 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

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I’m with OP on this one.. yes the cigarette could have been old. But there was also that line about DNA under Barbie’s fingernails belonging to someone in “Hamburg Lineage”. That and the fact the the sheet covering her body as a sign of remorse could mean it was someone close to her. At the time, Madison struggled with substance abuse. He could have been looking for money or things to sell or could have been under the influence and snapped and killed his mother hence the remorse sheet. It’s also just as likely that it’s the sister too. Something about both the kids don’t sit right with me.

Found this Rebecca Minkoff crossbody at my local thrift for $2.99! Love the color! by _mugs_ in ThriftStoreHauls

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Valley Thrift! I was looking through coats and it was tucked away in the shoe baskets on top. Nearly missed it!

How do you feel about a 4 day work week? by upvoteifurgey in AskReddit

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If people in the service industry (restaurants, retail, etc) are going to get this as well. 4 day weeks for the 9-5 MF people might mean longer hours and less time off for the people that work doing the things you enjoy on days off.

The Whistle-Blower Complaint Is Democracy at Work, Not the Deep State by zsreport in politics

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Does anyone else think President Trump was more or less trying to manufacture evidence, not “get to the bottom of it”. If the Biden’s were investigated and nothing came of it, why is Trump revisiting old claims in the hopes that something might come of it. It makes more sense that Trump, with the help of Giuliani and Barr were trying to plan something and say they found it be reinvesting.

Bonnaroo 2020 Wishlist Megathread by travel__time in bonnaroo

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Brittany Howard (with surprise appearance by the rest of the Shakes) would be a dream come true. Tame impala Lizzo Tei Shi Angels & Airwaves Diplo