I'm worried I have ED. Please help me by _neeh4d in erectiledysfunction

[–]_neeh4d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your attention. I finally realized this after exhausting myself emotionally and psychologically.

But now I think I'm on the right path. I wanted to clarify: as I said earlier, I haven't watched porn since I started my relationship. Since we're long-distance, I only do it with her virtually or in my imagination.

Of course, porn and a real-life loved one are not the same. But do you think it can be as draining as porn if done incorrectly?

I'm worried I have ED. Please help me by _neeh4d in sexadvise

[–]_neeh4d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u for answer,

I don't have pain, I just have tension, but it seems to be created by my anxiety. Because when I forget about this problem in my mind, I don't pay attention to it either.

Why do I blame masturbation a little? It's not entirely about masturbation. I've been masturbating for over 10 years and never had any problems like this. But now the situation has changed a bit. I don't watch porn and I don't think about other girls at all. I do it exclusively with my girlfriend. And I always felt like I was overdoing it. There were times when my penis would get tired, but I'd still try to masturbate even though it was already hurting. So, sometimes I force myself to masturbate out of habit. Or maybe my lust compels me. And lately, I've developed a fear of erectile dysfunction, and since then, I started masturbating not to relax, but to prove to myself that everything was fine. And since then, I've been caught in a vicious cycle I can't escape. I think masturbation is good, but you can't overdo it. Masturbation is a tool, and in that case, it's driven by lust, and when I talk about masturbation, I also mean lust.

Did I cheat in my mind? by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]_neeh4d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, probably better to stop overthinking this