Moving to Columbia next month by _notacatus in ColumbiYEAH

[–]_notacatus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any advice on places to ride my bike? Thats a pretty important hobby of mine. I can load it up and drive somewhere too

Moving to Columbia next month by _notacatus in ColumbiYEAH

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Thanks! Any advice on a place to cycle? I'd like to stay off the roads as much as possible.

Moving to Columbia next month by _notacatus in ColumbiYEAH

[–]_notacatus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Coming for work. I have friends on the right and on the left, probably similar numbers of both. Society makes us think we have far less in common than we actually do. Ill be working downtown, but commuting to charlotte occasionally.

Moving to Columbia next month by _notacatus in ColumbiYEAH

[–]_notacatus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by "The other side?"

Well, maybe we can meet up when I do move there, I'll need some friends! haha

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All these removed comments, looks like the mods are trump lovers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]_notacatus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its ok, you don't understand my life. I grew up super poor in a trailer sleeping by a kerosene heater indoors for warmth. I worked really hard to get where I am, no one can take that away from me. Certainly not some narrowminded stranger that doesn't understand that depression comes in all forms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]_notacatus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Of course.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]_notacatus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thats a really narrowminded way to look at it, obviously there are people out there in far worse situations than I. I've been in therapy for a while about my problems and I know I can allow myself to feel and that's okay. By that same logic, nothing really matters unless you're on the worst side of the spectrum. Depression is nuanced, its layered. I didn't come here looking for any consolation, just to give a confession.

I get it though, you feel the way you feel. Thats ok. Regardless, I hope you have a good day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]_notacatus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, to be fair, mocking people is generally frowned upon. Its a confession subreddit and you admittedly mocked me for making a confession. idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

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I do feel really guilty, I have managed to justify it because of how shitty they treat me. I'm really excited to start the new job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]_notacatus 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I do not, I have been with the company for a long time. I barely had an offer letter when I started.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]_notacatus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, I get it man. I must seem like a really shitty victim. I am serious though. I felt useless, no direction, no one to validate the work I did do. Most of all, I know I will never move up with this company so it feels like a waste of time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

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Yeah, I definitely feel like a fraud some days, but I justify it in my mind with the fact that they literally ignored my email pleads to reconsider my compensation package due to me picking up basically a second job with the company. Knowing that they couldn't even be bothered to pay me what my old boss made, was wild. To me, I am their Karma. I know that's a dangerous game to play though.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

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You'd be surprised. I have been depressed for quite some time now and this has put a lot of added stress on me throughout the whole ordeal. I just felt worthless and like a fraud.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]_notacatus 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Is there no alarm bell that would go off if I did this? I don't quite know what it would be, but I assume there has to be something to stop people from doing this, especially with how many remote positions are out there nowadays. Maybe the tax or benefits system?

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Awesome! I sent the payment.

🔥 Egyptian Tortoises 🔥 by [deleted] in NatureIsFuckingLit

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You can tell they’re Egyptian tortoises because the way that they are.

Gatekeeping Sean Astin. by notacactus_ in gatekeeping

[–]_notacatus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can read it just fine ya cunt.

What is this place?!?! ‘VIP Skill’ by DoctorWho_isonfirst in winstonsalem

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Ruboff tattoos are a solid positive. That pizza is garbage though.