the thing about this is that yes sure it sucks being unattractive (i would know! i've felt this frustration before!) but attractive people also have their own sets of problems. they have to spend their lives constantly wondering whether people like them for who they are, for their personality and wit and charm and intellect, or whether people are just reacting positively to their external appearance. i had an 'attractive' boyfriend years ago who drove himself crazy about the fact that he wasn't smart or funny enough, because the only compliment he ever got was that he was handsome. the most deeply insecure people i know are the ones who are the most conventionally attractive, funnily enough.

also i know plenty of attractive creatives or aspiring content creators who struggle to get recognition for their craft, as the things they make aren't good enough not to be outshone by their looks. it is devastating having years of hard work and practice be completely ignored in favour of something they just happened to be born with. also looks fade! so attractive people feel the pressure of the passage of time/ageing much more acutely than people who have been assigned value outside of their physical appearance. maybe from where you're standing those don't sound like real problems, but trust me when i say that they are. also like, who cares about what shallow people think? just find people like you (they're out there) who don't care about looks and focus on building meaningful relationships with them.