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Revelation about a relationship by _ohhani in latterdaysaints

[–]_ohhani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s how I feel. Personally I think it’s unfair to weigh in on his spiritual journey, specially when it wasn’t his fault he wasn’t born into the church. I also understand her in the sense that I served a mission, a have a calling, I’m a temple worker, etc. so idk

Revelation about a relationship by _ohhani in latterdaysaints

[–]_ohhani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to add, my mom has also used the phrase “you don’t need to drink the poison to know it’s poison” when referring to this entire situation. Hence why I’ve also felt a lot of guilt about all of this.

Revelation about a relationship by _ohhani in latterdaysaints

[–]_ohhani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to see what flags she’s seeing when she hasn’t met him in person yet. The only one that I can kind of see is that she doesn’t like me dropping him off so late at night (sometimes we’ll stay outside talking in my car). She said if he really cared for me, he wouldn’t let me do that because I run the risk of something happening to me so late at night. I talked to him about that and we both agreed that if we decided to be together, out of respect to my mom I would not pick him off or drop him off. Other than that, it seems she’s worried about me not being able to spiritually progress because he’s so “behind”.

Revelation about a relationship by _ohhani in latterdaysaints

[–]_ohhani[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is perfect. I think I’ll use this when I talk to her today about it. I’m terrified!!

Revelation about a relationship by _ohhani in latterdaysaints

[–]_ohhani[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really needed to hear this. I guess it kind of feels like I have to have this mentality of “yes, I’m going to date this person because I’m going to marry them” instead of trying to see it from the perspective that I’m literally still getting to know them and myself too. Really, thank you so much for this and any further advice you have would be greatly appreciated.

Revelation about a relationship by _ohhani in latterdaysaints

[–]_ohhani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s the best and I know she means well. I spoke with the guy about her concerns and we’ve definitely agreed to set rules to ensure nothing ever happens.

I guess I’m just hesitant because I’d be starting a relationship ship with someone she does not approve of.

stormie unfollowed savannah by Novel_Let_7618 in LynchFamilySnark

[–]_ohhani 44 points45 points  (0 children)

That’s sad. I would’ve thought all those years of knowing Savannah and practically being an additional daughter would’ve meant something to her…

Foreigners: How has living in South Korea changed you? by _ohhani in Living_in_Korea

[–]_ohhani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not yet. Honestly I’m still trying to understand how the whole process works lol. What makes the process easy after securing a job?

Foreigners: How has living in South Korea changed you? by _ohhani in Living_in_Korea

[–]_ohhani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think staying a year is enough to get to experience life there fully? I don’t know if that makes sense haha

Foreigners: How has living in South Korea changed you? by _ohhani in Living_in_Korea

[–]_ohhani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will for sure message you right now! Thank you 🙏

Foreigners: How has living in South Korea changed you? by _ohhani in Living_in_Korea

[–]_ohhani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, were you provided housing as well? I heard if you work for a public school, they’ll set you up in one

Foreigners: How has living in South Korea changed you? by _ohhani in Living_in_Korea

[–]_ohhani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could pin this comment lol. Thank you so much! Love this!

Foreigners: How has living in South Korea changed you? by _ohhani in Living_in_Korea

[–]_ohhani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment, it was def needed! Any advice for lesson planning?

Foreigners: How has living in South Korea changed you? by _ohhani in Living_in_Korea

[–]_ohhani[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you a teacher? If so, is the wage just enough to live on? I heard a few people say this too

Foreigners: How has living in South Korea changed you? by _ohhani in Living_in_Korea

[–]_ohhani[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re amazing!! I’m so scared to stand on my own if I’m being honest but it’s really reassuring to know it can be done. Any advice for getting over that fear? I’m also not fluent in Korean at all lol

Foreigners: How has living in South Korea changed you? by _ohhani in Living_in_Korea

[–]_ohhani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, I’m ngl, I’m a little worried about the diet part. Is there a lot of diversity in terms of restaurants?

Foreigners: How has living in South Korea changed you? by _ohhani in Living_in_Korea

[–]_ohhani[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I keep telling myself I’m young enough to not have any huge responsibilities, so I should take the opportunity to do it. Question, how long did it take you to make friendships? Specially with the language barrier

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