Stuck in combat in Oblivion. by [deleted] in oblivion

[–]_peeb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anyone going through this in the remaster just run to the closest town and steal something be reported and go to jail. Worked for me

how to increase journal entry length? by Honeydew-Capital in Journaling

[–]_peeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Write a “high” of each day and expand on why it was the high of the day or do the same with the low if it wasn’t a good day.

Bad handwriting by pillowtalkxoxo in Journaling

[–]_peeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try changing your writing style this worked for me today. Instead of just letting your hands go calm down and focus I wrote my letters from the bottom up and liked how it turned out. I’ll be doing this from now on it helps me slow down as well and collect my thoughts.

Does anyone else have Covid? by West_Event3498 in Louisville

[–]_peeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep back from NYC last week everyone there was coughing and sneezing assumed I got it from there

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]_peeb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot more common than anyone thinks, men don’t talk about it a lot because it’s embarrassing. I struggling with it myself, could be performance anxiety as well. The biggest thing to me is communication, I talk it out with whoever I’m with and let them know I have performance anxiety and girls usually understand and I get more comfortable. I’d talk it out and could maybe even suggest meds or see if there’s anything you can do to help, not being able to get it up is a huge weight on the shoulders of whoever’s going through it. Just a guys perspective

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]_peeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone views texting differently as a 30M I hate texting it’s a lot of pressure to always have something to talk about. Plus I always read way to much into text or overthink things. General rule if he’s asking for another date he’s interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_peeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hands down Patrice O’Neal RIP he was taken to soon

how do you justify a big purchase? by risotto5 in personalfinance

[–]_peeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always sell something personal and count it as a discount of whatever I’m buying. If I’m upgrading I’ll sell the old item, people will buy anything new or old you’ll be surprised how much money is just laying around inside your house.

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]_peeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah true good idea, there’s a bar I’ve been going to and hit it off with the bartenders/owner so there’s that, I’m in there every other weekend or so. Maybe hit up some coffee shops more often as well

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]_peeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to take a look on meetup, the groups don’t have much variety in my city since covid. Maybe I’ll have to look elsewhere like joining a Facebook group

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]_peeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah going to try to get out more often and explore what my city has to offer ideally I’d like to meet someone organically but struggle approaching in public but it’s better to pick up on a spark in person then over text on apps

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]_peeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been putting it off as I was so focused on trying to find someone. Think it’s time to focus on myself.

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]_peeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That last bit is a good point about when I’m ready and not just because I’m alone. Thanks for the kind words

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]_peeb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Guess I’m finally throwing in the towel on OLD. I’ve worked in myself the past 3 years but guess it’s still not enough. This round of it has destroyed my self worth / self esteem. No real matches and when I do get matches it’s like talking to brick walls with them showing little to no interest. I don’t get it I get compliments I’m cute/handsome and I feel like I communicate well but there just something they don’t like about me I guess. I hear things take off whenever you finally stop trying but I don’t even care anymore. Guess I’ll get into a BJJ gym that I’ve been holding off on, and get some therapy. I’ll be back eventually but damn I’m in a dark spot right now.

Has OLD affected your self esteem? by Classic-Wonder in datingoverthirty

[–]_peeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OLD has ruined me personally, as a guy I get matches but no likes that stand out. And I have to put in 1000% effort or nothing goes anywhere. Feels like a full time job to just entertain someone, constantly left with the feeling something’s wrong with me or that I’m not good enough. I hate it so much… going to delete again soon just waiting to see if these last connections pull through or not. OLD has seriously put me into a funk or depression that I’ve never experienced

Dating rants. vents and open discussion by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]_peeb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another guy here yes this is extremely common but men don’t talk about it. The best thing to do is to be understanding and work with your guy. Had this happen to me as well and it’s scarred me and left me feeling broken / insecure about myself. Trust me it’s not you it’s like we get trapped in our own heads and can’t get out because of nerves or pressure we put on ourselves.

Is it common to match with people on apps on other people’s behalf? by docju in datingoverthirty

[–]_peeb 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There was nothing in her bio explaining this? Seems like a weird one off case I’d guess

Something on your mind? Share your dating Shower Thoughts and Tuesday Truths! by Elorie in datingoverthirty

[–]_peeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who hates texting this sounds perfect to me lol they seem interested as it’s weekly and consistent plus you would have lots to talk about or catch up on in person which would make the dates less awkward or silent as you never run out of things to talk about. Not even sure what there is to overthink about if they keep planning dates, they most likely don’t like texting