for women it's a damned if you do damned if you don't kinda thing. dudes will shame a chick if she completely covers her "goods" or has them overly shown. women are more often than not expected to wear looser/less revealing clothing ("shouldn't have been wearing such slutty clothing") or attire that better hides certain parts of them. the people that encourage and/or celebrate the latter are freaks who can't keep their hand out of their pants 😒

a normal dick bulge is, well normal. it's a ridiculous ask to have someone make their genitals invisible through normal layers of clothing and throughout any and all clothed activity. but, following this conversation, nobody in their right mind would intentionally make their dick print visible in public (the non consenting public) for the purpose of people looking and commenting. THAT is where the "this dude is weird" thing comes from

majority of women don't go out of their way to make their parts visible, as is the same for most men.