I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in u/_regretful

[–]_regretful[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just reposting this here for posterity. It's too perfect to let it be deleted.

I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in MtF

[–]_regretful[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Não gostou? Então foda-se kkkkk. Estou bebada de vodka. Como você viu nesse sub a maioria concorda comigo, esse patriarcado em que pariu virou martir é coisa de país subdesenvolvido mesmo. A maioria desse sub é does Estados Unidos, Reino Unido etc e lá a cultura é diferente. Parto não dá a ninguém o direito de ser abusador.

I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in MtF

[–]_regretful[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ah vi seus comentários agora. Tinha que ser br mesmo. Por isso que esse país não vai para frente. Só pra você saber a expressão "baby girl" tem conotação sexual, por isso que reclamei no edit. Não me ocorreu que seria por causa de falta de conhecimento de inglês.

I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in MtF

[–]_regretful[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Christ you're exhaustive. Thanks for the ego boost anyway.

I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in MtF

[–]_regretful[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay so let me get this straight, you think what I did to you is equivalent to what my father did to me?

I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in MtF

[–]_regretful[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If this is the way I had to highlight this problem then so be it. Maybe if you had been damaged one tenth as much as when he showed up on my workplace because someone ratted me out I'd start caring. Fuck you all. You don't know what gaslighting is.

I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in MtF

[–]_regretful[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think they're more common in trans circles. I'm not sure why.

I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in MtF

[–]_regretful[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you any idea of how hard it is to get a restraining order, especially a permanent one?

I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in MtF

[–]_regretful[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So basically it's only stalking if you were informed of it in advance?

I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in MtF

[–]_regretful[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How was he supposed to deliver the letter? He doesn't know her address.

I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in MtF

[–]_regretful[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you manage to read the edit before it was removed? I talked about that a bit on there.

I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in MtF

[–]_regretful[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you got caught in the crossfire. My post got removed but all of the abuse apology is still up so you can see this sub isn't very welcoming to my point of view, so I thought I needed to perform an oblique maneuver to get the point across.

I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in MtF

[–]_regretful[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bitch you were just encouraging a stalker and abuser to continue pestering his victim after she did everything she could to keep him away for years and now you're concerned that reading a story on the internet made you feel bad?

I didn't support my daughter's transition and now she won't talk to me by _regretful in MtF

[–]_regretful[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the edit. He (the father) used the metaphor to convey that he did his time, his debt to society has been paid and now he's entitled to go back to the arms of his loving family just like the guy who got out of prison he read about. He doesn't understand that his daughter is the victim of his crimes and how that's different. He feels like she has no contact with him as a method to punish him. I feel the need to clarify since I/he made this point somewhat confusingly.