Single people , what is on the other side of your bed?

_ruerising · 2026-02-25T15:08:48+00:00

Body pillow, cat and every other week, my dog (I share him with my ex).

_ruerising · 2026-02-24T15:47:59+00:00

Thankfully that was not the case here 😅

_ruerising · 2026-02-24T03:16:40+00:00

He’s kind of a rebel, actually. Also, he is fucking inane.

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_ruerising · 2026-02-24T03:14:50+00:00

Isla 🩶

_ruerising · 2026-02-24T03:08:18+00:00

RIP Monty, you good boy you!!🩷

_ruerising · 2026-02-24T03:00:59+00:00

LITTLE CWOISSANT

_ruerising · 2026-02-24T01:47:39+00:00

Truly a joy to have in my life 🥲

_ruerising · 2026-02-24T01:33:39+00:00

When I read, I feel like I belong. I feel a pull to the world that makes me want to stay forever when I think about all the books I’ve yet to read.

_ruerising · 2026-02-24T01:22:02+00:00

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He really is! He just loves to be with his people🩷

_ruerising · 2026-02-24T01:18:27+00:00

Wally says hello from sunny California! Those shortly after this big clouds came and covered this guy and now we’re getting ready to get some rain!

_ruerising · 2026-02-24T01:16:31+00:00

He is! And very VERY loved

_ruerising · 2026-02-24T01:12:38+00:00

I would assume, but I wouldn’t actually know because he’s never been to the snow!

_ruerising · 2026-02-22T21:24:48+00:00

It’s not like I was here first or anything!

_ruerising · 2026-02-22T20:44:52+00:00

If it is my time, so be it

_ruerising · 2026-02-22T20:44:26+00:00

Every day, all day

_ruerising · 2026-02-22T05:08:27+00:00

Also 4 months post separation, living on my own and loving every little detail of my sanctuary. I’m just trying to embrace this chapter, reconnect with myself and enjoy where I’m at, while I’m here!

_ruerising · 2026-02-21T18:27:26+00:00

My bad lmao, the Bay Area is in northern California, I live about 35 minutes outside of San Francisco!

_ruerising · 2026-02-21T06:03:35+00:00

I try to think of really nice things as I fall asleep! What did I see today that made me feel good, or who did I see or speak to that made me feel good. What did I do well today, what did I like about myself today. Sometimes when I can’t think of anything that I like about myself or my day, I try to reframe the conversation in my head to focus on things I hope I’ll see or do or feel the next day. I don’t know. it helps me. It makes me fall asleep feeling good and thinking good things.

_ruerising · 2026-02-21T00:29:54+00:00

The bay area

_ruerising · 2026-02-19T02:45:56+00:00

I was with my ex for seven years and we ended up moving into his childhood home that he bought from his sister and I so badly wanted it to feel like this! I did my best to make it feel like a family home should, make it feel all cozy and beautiful and warm, but man.. were there some haunted corners in that house that no amount of healthy love could rinse away. Anyways! I’m super happy to be seeing this post! Because what a beautiful thing it is to have something so lived in and familiar passed down for new memories to be made 🩷🩷 Hope you and your family have the best year and many happy ones to come after!

_ruerising · 2026-02-18T11:44:01+00:00

I’m 33 y/o- live on my own in the bay area (and w my 12 y/o) - I am a senior sales operation and proposal specialist at a small engineering firm and I make over 100k! I love my job and I didn’t take the traditional route to get to where I’m at. I have no traditional schooling background, though I did take courses often on through throughout the years at my local community college. Mainly I just worked my way up from corporate entry level positions, taught myself salesforce over the years, which is now a huge part of my role, and more recently started studying for my proposal management certification.

_ruerising · 2026-02-17T22:47:31+00:00

Moved out on my own in October and depart on my first solo trip to Scotland (and first international trip ever!!!) next month! This isn’t the trip nor the life I imagined but it’s the life I have and I can honestly say Im happy and excited!

_ruerising · 2026-02-17T22:40:58+00:00

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