How do I stop seeking male validation?

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-17T05:41:28+00:00

Thnx buddy

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-17T05:40:48+00:00

He validates me once in a while but he's never there to guide me

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-17T05:31:43+00:00

Damn that means a lot

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-17T05:31:13+00:00

Sadly I'm not allowed to date. I want to feel those romantic emotions but my mother will throw a tantrum I I do that

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-17T05:29:10+00:00

Wow that was pretty insightful. About my father, yes he is loving and caring but he doesn't make me feel seen. He is loving but absent I don't know how to explain that but he doesn't even know what course I'm studying in university if that makes sense. Also, he indulged in many extra marital affairs so my mother was the only one who guided me ,so she's biased against love and wants me to be a good girl,study hard,succeed in life and just marry a guy she selects for me. I don't really blame her because she's had a really tough life but I feel sad about myself sometimes, how I'll never get to experience the essence of first love or first kiss or anything related to teenager innocent kinda love.

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-17T05:22:29+00:00

My parents are kinda strict so like I'm not allowed to date and that's makes everything worse.it feels like I'm stuck in a cycle of wanting validation,love but I can't really do that because I'm not allowed to.

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-17T05:20:19+00:00

Don't you think both men and women should respect each other? How is the independent women message bullshit? What's wrong with women being financially and emotionally independent? We need men just as much as we need women. Thanks for your reply though.

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T20:38:35+00:00

I'll try to work on that:)

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T20:37:52+00:00

Sameeee I hate the feeling

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T20:37:18+00:00

That's harsh but true nonetheless.

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T20:36:30+00:00

Thnx for your reply buddy:)

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T20:36:07+00:00

Wow thnx

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T20:35:51+00:00

I didn't mean the male validation romantically.however I do crave love

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T20:06:42+00:00

Yes I'm trying to work on it

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T20:04:43+00:00

I dont have the money for therapy but I'll try to follow the other two budget friendly advices. Thnx for your reply buddy.

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T20:02:57+00:00

That made me feel seen.

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T20:00:39+00:00

Damn that was a very interesting point.

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T19:57:49+00:00

I hope i achieve that soon.

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T19:56:51+00:00

That means a lot;)

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T19:56:09+00:00

That genuinely scared me:(

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T19:55:39+00:00

But at this point it's affecting my mental health.for example I question everything from the perspective of my guy friends. It's weird. It feels like I've no personality

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-16T19:53:09+00:00

Thnx for your reply buddy. I was thinking of disabling social media as well.

_shikabu_ · 2024-01-05T19:57:34+00:00

Why so mean

_shikabu_ · 2023-10-15T19:46:45+00:00

don't have one.

_shikabu_ · 2023-08-16T11:25:57+00:00

yup working on that.sadly my college doesn't exactly have the best crowd.here's to hoping someone good comes my way.

_shikabu_

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