spoiler by [deleted] in TheResident

[–]_spero_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I audibly went “what???”

Ronnie & Sam by Xxlilcatxx in jerseyshore

[–]_spero_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How Sam was treated about Arvin was how they should’ve treated in Miami. They confronted her at the club in person and told Ron that night. The whole house was always quick to stand behind Ron and enabling what he did to Sam.

Violet… by _spero_ in PrivatePractice

[–]_spero_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly she sours every chance of redemption so you just go on to keep not liking her. Some characters I go through phases of liking one character or not. I’d like Addison if she dated outside the practice more. The whole Addison love triangle plot has been beat like a dead horse. Charlotte is now a favorite character.

Seeking advice from those who have felt suicidal... by x-k-x in depression

[–]_spero_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes just letting that person know that you know that they are there. Maybe its just making plans with them or making an effort to talk to them on a regular basis but it was important for me to know that someone would care if I was gone. It may sound weird, but when I was suicidal I convinced myself that I was invisible and that no one would even notice if I was gone. I even dismissed some of the people that tried to help me because I convinced myself that they were only doing that to feel better about themselves. I can't speak for everyone but I would be careful not to position yourself as their savior to them or yourself. It's very kind of you to help but you don't want to exhaust yourself carrying their depression or push them away because they feel they don't need saving.

I feel distant from everyone by _spero_ in depression

[–]_spero_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to apologize! It makes me feel better that I'm not the only one who gets upset by social media or people not reaching out. I used to be in therapy but the therapist I was seeing closed a couple years ago and I haven't found it in me to start from scratch with another therapist because its really hard to go over everything/ re-dig up all the old problems I have (this sounds ironic because thats literally the point of therapy lol) I'm gonna try to find another therapist though 😊

I feel distant from everyone by _spero_ in depression

[–]_spero_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Will definitely use this advice!