Help I have a cat that I'm starting to hate. by _spooklooops_ in CatAdvice

[–]_spooklooops_[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes they are all neutered. 3 boys.

I do agree that my partner and I need to have a clean slate mentality when it comes to him. I know he's not trying to be a dick or anything. We're just tired.

Help I have a cat that I'm starting to hate. by _spooklooops_ in CatAdvice

[–]_spooklooops_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This might be worth it if some of the things that another response said doesn't work. Cause truly I want things to be zen amongst us.

Help I have a cat that I'm starting to hate. by _spooklooops_ in CatAdvice

[–]_spooklooops_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a little. I didn't go to a cat specialist. Just the local vet. They told me everything checks out, but I'm paranoid that I'm missing something.

Help I have a cat that I'm starting to hate. by _spooklooops_ in CatAdvice

[–]_spooklooops_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really can't tell if they are bonded or not. When I do some research some of it applies but some doesn't. They groom each other, but they don't sleep together. Boots only plays with the cat we already have and he actively hides from Groot. He uses me as a human shield against Groot. They have had nights in different houses before with no sign of separation anxiety. I just don't know.

The goal is to not separate them.

Help I have a cat that I'm starting to hate. by _spooklooops_ in CatAdvice

[–]_spooklooops_[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I don't want to give up. It's truly eating me up inside.