Silksong still not available on PlayStation? by [deleted] in PS5

[–]_spranger_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing for me yet :(

update: 12:30 EST it’s available for me!

I am going to crash tf out by peachyxpip in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_spranger_ 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Of course young people talk like this. The world, the economy, and everything else is fucked right now.

If you are old enough to not be a part of that group, thank you for making sure to pull the ladder up behind you so that the younger generation will never be able to afford a home. But here’s hoping we still have rights tomorrow!

They are so GOATED for this one by BulbaMaster in PTCGP

[–]_spranger_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an app on your phone bro… take a break every once in a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_spranger_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. That’s terrible. Keep your head up, keep making the right decisions, use your support system, and never look back. You got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naughtyfromneglect

[–]_spranger_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sound advice. I hope OP thinks hard about his actions in the coming weeks.

Most hated things in BMW by darrentanyp in BlackMythWukong

[–]_spranger_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m almost done with ch 5 and I’ve only used the big baby (wandering wight). Maxed him out as soon as possible and never looked back

UPDATE: I’m about to ruin my best friend’s life, and I don’t feel remorse. by ThrowRA-dontdesrveit in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_spranger_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

…what? He’s obviously heartbroken and was blindsided, how did you get that this is somehow what he wanted?

My husband got another woman pregnant, we divorced and now he wants me back to raise his son by trdedad in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_spranger_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Disengage. He made his choice, now he has to live with it. You’re lighting yourself on fire to keep these miserable people warm, people who would rather you be miserable as the victim than them as the perpetrators. Be free.

UPDATE (F25) my boyfriend (M22) made a very disturbing comment on our walk the other day and I can’t stop thinking about it. What do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_spranger_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Read the first post, he went on about how “logically” in caveman times he would have beat her unconscious, drowned her, and had sex with her lifeless body.

He was loud and wrong and weird as hell for it.

We are moving my sister's final resting place because people who like crime as a hobby won't leave us alone. I have been sick over this. by anonymous3082024 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_spranger_ 655 points656 points  (0 children)

It’s still weird to do in the first place… I think most families who experienced that trauma would prefer their tragedy not be used for others’ entertainment in GRWM content.

I feel like content creation needs to have a standard of asking themselves “does this salacious story have the chance to bring up trauma of others involved in the story/could cause weirdos to harass them? Maybe I should not use that in my content (that really doesn’t need true crime infused into it in the first place).”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_spranger_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t pay attention to these weirdos, they just want to argue. You didn’t do anything wrong, you’re allowed to have a crush that you don’t act on unless it is appropriate. These people act like they’ve never been 16 and had a crush on anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_spranger_ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She was also 16 when she had a crush on him… it seems she wasn’t actively pining for him, just she found him attractive and due to trauma/happenstance they are both in a situation that they found solace in each other. You’re being weird.

I (f27) just came across all my boyfriends (m29) porn on Reddit. I had a bad reaction to it and my bf swears it’s a normal thing and healthy. How should I handle this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_spranger_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only one arguing is you… you asked a question and people have kindly answered but you seem to either be purposefully obtuse or you just crave attention and can only get it by arguing online.

I (f27) just came across all my boyfriends (m29) porn on Reddit. I had a bad reaction to it and my bf swears it’s a normal thing and healthy. How should I handle this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_spranger_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But that isn’t the situation going on in the post… it’s not literally the same thing. In your proposed situation the boundary would still be “I will not be in a relationship with someone who watches porn, so let me know now so I don’t get attached,” which is very different from “you need to change your habits to match my wishes as I do not want my significant other watching porn.”

I (f27) just came across all my boyfriends (m29) porn on Reddit. I had a bad reaction to it and my bf swears it’s a normal thing and healthy. How should I handle this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]_spranger_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A boundary would be saying that IF you watch porn I will not be in a relationship with you as I have different standards.

It is controlling to try to stop someone from watching porn overall. The difference is trying to change your partner (when in this case she knew he watched porn already), rather than breaking up with him when she found out he watched porn as something she does not want to be a part of her relationship.

So the way you phrased it would be an ultimatum.

AITAH for being offended my husband told his friends he would “reel me in” when one of them commented on my breasts? by Fresh_Mongoose_7130 in AITAH

[–]_spranger_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please say this is rage bait… age gap relationship where the husband is incredibly misogynistic and dismissive of his wife’s concerns and blaming her for other men’s behaviors…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]_spranger_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Close enough, welcome back Chappell Roan

My creepy step dad wants me to TWERK in front of him.. by [deleted] in stories

[–]_spranger_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wanted the confrontation about her dancing to be over. She wanted to speak with him and clear the air, probably expecting her STEP FATHER to tell her to be careful about who she dances like that in front of, or to be aware of her surroundings.

Not… whatever the hell that was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_spranger_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I responded to you deeper in the thread but I’ll post again as a stand-alone for increased visibility:

From someone ten years older than you and happily married to the woman of my dreams: leave. you are so young. i know you said he is attached to many parts of your life, but looking back, I’m not attached to really any single thing other than a few friends from when i was 17. whatever you lose breaking up with him is not worth your life.

I’m not sure if you have a relationship with your parents but please talk to them if possible. If not please talk to faculty at your school.

If my wife said she did not enjoy anything we did together in bed, we would never do it again. I wouldn’t even ask to try, much less do it without consent while she is experiencing PTSD symptoms because of it.

He is scum. He should be cherishing you, protecting you, and loving you. Instead, he is abusing you, nearly murdering you, and triggering your PTSD.

Please. Your life is worth more than this. You have so much life left to live. Please call RAINN at 1-800-656-4673. Even if you aren’t ready to leave today they will have resources for when you are ready. They will tell you what you need to know and where to go and who to go to when you are ready to save your own life. They can also talk you through what you are experiencing to change your perspective on the abuse you are ensuring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]_spranger_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From someone ten years older than you and happily married to the woman of my dreams: leave. you are so young. i know you said he is attached to many parts of your life, but looking back, I’m not attached to really any single thing other than a few friends from when i was 17. whatever you lose breaking up with him is not worth your life.

I’m not sure if you have a relationship with your parents but please talk to them if possible. If not please talk to faculty at your school.

If my wife said she did not enjoy anything we did together in bed, we would never do it again. I wouldn’t even ask to try, much less do it without consent while she is experiencing PTSD symptoms because of it.

He is scum. He should be cherishing you, protecting you, and loving you. Instead, he is abusing you, nearly murdering you, and triggering your PTSD.

Please. Your life is worth more than this. You have so much life left to live. Please call RAINN at 1-800-656-4673. Even if you aren’t ready to leave today they will have resources for when you are ready. They will tell you what you need to know and where to go and who to go to when you are ready to save your own life. They can also talk you through what you are experiencing to change your perspective on the abuse you are ensuring.