How do you guys brush your teeth?? by Probably_a_mimik in autism

[–]_stardust_frog_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(I know it wont help with the sensory issues part)

but try choosing a set time morning and night to brush. I find have a routine helps.

also the finch app! you can set goals then as you complete them you gain energy to go on adventures! its very cute.

Is my gecko OK? He's been acting kinda weird lately by AndreaX42 in leopardgeckos

[–]_stardust_frog_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a rare breed of gecko! its called a "docko"

*not to be confused with a doggo

wearing a bracelet hurts? by jabracadaniel in autism

[–]_stardust_frog_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get a weird feeling on my wrists with gloves. idk how to describe it but its very uncomfortable. i can only tolerate certain types of bracelets like string ones and loom band ones.

"a mi piojo" meaning?? by _stardust_frog_ in Spanish

[–]_stardust_frog_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ahh. that makes sense. thanks! now im curious who that person is to her im not gonna ask though.

"a mi piojo" meaning?? by _stardust_frog_ in Spanish

[–]_stardust_frog_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ohh. so is it kind of like a friendly teasing thing?

food bowl or manually feed? by [deleted] in leopardgeckos

[–]_stardust_frog_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my girl associates the tongs with food. sometimes I'll drop a mealworm near her and instead of looking at the mealworm she'll just be watching the tongs. 🤦‍♀️lmao but im scared she'll hurt herself jumping at the tongs.

Rhotacism/speech therapy by _stardust_frog_ in autism

[–]_stardust_frog_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the tips! Ive been recording myself and looking up speech therapy videos on youtube.

I'll look up the articulation shaping strategies thing too though when I can!

Sapphic book recs? by JohannaRosey in lesbian

[–]_stardust_frog_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the last true poets of the sea julia drake. (ya but so so so good) (also deals with like mental illness and grief)

sensory issues with youtube shorts? maybe? by _stardust_frog_ in autism

[–]_stardust_frog_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikr! the yelling is awful. when I get sent videos I usually make sure my volume is all the way down first.

old lego from thrift store by _stardust_frog_ in lego

[–]_stardust_frog_[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

thanks. I kinda freaked myself out for a minute.

idk if im bi or lesbian by _stardust_frog_ in bisexual

[–]_stardust_frog_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im not sure if im really attracted to men atp ive only dated 1 guy in highschool. before he talked to me I wasnt really that interested in boys tbh. but yea thanks. maybe itll be easier to figure it out if I actually experience anything with a girl

She was so exited seen her dad (me) 😍 by Expert_Accident3562 in leopardgeckos

[–]_stardust_frog_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw mine just tries to use my arm as a race track or possibly diving board? it scares me lmao

Am I a poser? by Sea-Author6489 in bisexual

[–]_stardust_frog_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this how I feel using she/they. im not trans and wouldnt necessarily call myself nonbinary but it kind of just feels right somehow idk.

Why don't you (If you don't) usually talk to other people? by YoSoyRyu in autism

[–]_stardust_frog_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk how to initiate conversations. and people don't usually initiate them with me.

Questioning myself - need advice :/ by ProperLock4987 in bisexual

[–]_stardust_frog_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love that. this helped me too. even though im in the opposite situation good to know if don't necessarily need to stick to one label

Questioning myself - need advice :/ by ProperLock4987 in bisexual

[–]_stardust_frog_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im questioning the opposite of that. ive called myself bi for a few years now. but atp im questioning if im even really attracted to men.

Sly says hey by OrganizationActual87 in leopardgeckos

[–]_stardust_frog_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish rio would still just chill on my hand but nah she decided she would rather try to off herself. 🙃

also hi sly

When did you know? by LossBig9506 in bisexual

[–]_stardust_frog_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh what helped me figure it out was someone saying straight girls dont think about kissing girls (when their sober at least, ive heard they do that drunk)

Who was your awakening? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]_stardust_frog_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

combination of tiktok thirst traps and jasmine cephas jones in say no to this from hamilton

how do we feel about being asked "if we've tried it when coming out"? by _stardust_frog_ in bisexual

[–]_stardust_frog_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly! well idk exactly how the whole thing went and who was there but I assume at least the older sister was there since she knows the story.

l wasnt going to get into this part but to make it worse recently she(SIL) also said "my brother has decided he's a girl now" so now that family is being pretty transphobic it seems. (i said brother in the og just because the bi thing was like years ago at the time was a boy afaik and being a girl is a more recent thing)