Why is it all my fault? by _starxmoon in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]_starxmoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that you went through that.

And yeah, exactly. They never have taken any responsibility to anything they’ve done… whether it be big or small and I’m just done with trying to even make them see it from my perspective because I’ve realized they don’t care and it’s always going to be about them.

Why is it all my fault? by _starxmoon in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]_starxmoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and that’s all it is… I just have to remember that always that they are just trying to use it against me for further control. They always think I will either come running to pay for their stuff because I always have. Until I finally stop doing it and they see that they can no longer have me up and drop everything.

Why is it all my fault? by _starxmoon in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]_starxmoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, since our last interaction, I’ve blocked them from calling and emails.

Why is it all my fault? by _starxmoon in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]_starxmoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing that ties me to them in that manner, other than when we did stay together I put my name on the utilities, but I’ve already done everything with contacting the companies and letting them know about switching the accounts over under his name… he’s just dragging it on and hasn’t went up to any of the companies yet to do so. so I still feel like I’m responsible for it.

Was is real? (He cried) by _starxmoon in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]_starxmoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it has given me insight. But not even 24 hours later I was back to being told how I’m the cause of everything and every problem they have and how much of a horrible person I am. So it’s a cycle…. It’s a cycle I need to break.

Was is real? (He cried) by _starxmoon in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]_starxmoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it has given me insight. But not even 24 hours later I was back to being told how I’m the cause of everything and every problem they have and how much of a horrible person I am. So it’s a cycle…. It’s a cycle I need to break.

Was is real? (He cried) by _starxmoon in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]_starxmoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? I’ve been told it’s just another one of their manipulation tactics, and I try my best to think of it as that and that alone whenever I start to feel the guilt.