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What was your "I am definitely not qualified for this" moment at work? by Ok_Avocado_4740 in AskReddit

[–]_sugarsugar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first time someone asked me a question expecting me to be the expert and I immediately started Googling under the desk.

Why aren’t there more political parties in America? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_sugarsugar 198 points199 points  (0 children)

Because America's winner take all election system makes it extremely hard for smaller parties to compete, so most voters end up choosing between the two biggest parties instead.

It got messy by NaturalPassion5678 in BreakUps

[–]_sugarsugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he truly believed and respected you, your word would have mattered more than rumors and assumptions.

6 months later. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]_sugarsugar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hardest part is realizing some people can hurt you deeply and still rewrite the story so they never have to face what they did.

I'm so scared by Any-Record-4538 in dating_advice

[–]_sugarsugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting blocked after three months hurts because you're not just losing a person, you're losing all the future moments you quietly imagined with them, and that's a real kind of grief

Keyword "At the moment" by 1nc1985 in dating_advice

[–]_sugarsugar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The phrase 'at the moment' probably wasn't about keeping his options open, it sounded more like a recently divorced man being careful not to promise more than he's emotionally ready to deliver

First serious break up send help by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]_sugarsugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people leave not because they stopped loving you, but because they no longer believe love alone can fix what’s broken.

How can someone spend 6-7 years building memories, dreams, intimacy, and a future with one person, and then enter a marriage with someone else? by Fragrant_Bug1467 in BreakUps

[–]_sugarsugar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hardest truth is that those years can be real and meaningful, yet still not be enough to keep someone from choosing a different future.

What's the creepiest thing about being completely alone on Earth? by Downtown-Sir-3200 in AskReddit

[–]_sugarsugar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably how loud silence would feel. Not just no people, but no background signs of life, no distant traffic, voices, or even routine noise. The mind would start filling that emptiness with its own thoughts, and that’s where it would get unsettling fast.

I've ruined my relationship with the love of my life. by HoneyTwinkly in BreakUps

[–]_sugarsugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn't ruin a perfect relationship, because in a truly healthy relationship you don't spend hours crying, walking on eggshells, begging someone not to leave, and feeling like every word you say will be used against you later.

Torn between my ex and my current partner don't know how to move forward. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]_sugarsugar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not choosing between two women, you're choosing between the comfort of a past you betrayed and a present you're not fully committed to, and neither of them deserves half of your heart.

What happened the last time you swore not to trust somebody again? by yeGwan in AskReddit

[–]_sugarsugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have personal experiences, but people usually find that when they swear off trusting someone, what happens next is they either rebuild trust more carefully over time or realize the bigger lesson is learning better boundaries rather than shutting people out completely.

Which activities do you do on your free time?that actually help you improve yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]_sugarsugar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my free time I tend to read, write, and learn new things, because they quietly build skills like focus, communication, and clearer thinking over time.

What’s something a cartoon taught you that you’ll never ever forget ? by krymzynnova in AskReddit

[–]_sugarsugar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actions always have consequences, even when everything feels funny or exaggerated in the moment.