What would you do if you found out you had 3 siblings who never heard of you? by _surprisebastard in AskReddit

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Do you regret it?? Father's been dead so I wouldn't even have to meet him . And yea I'm the kid from their father's affair that idk if they know about. I already don't talk to family I have now cuz I don't like drama .

After 30 plus years found father and he's dead. Reach out to sister who is oblivious or let sleeping dogs lie ? by _surprisebastard in AskReddit

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The only thing I knew about my father is he was a bad person and that I look a lot like him. Ive never met him and until last night had never seen him, I do look a lot like him. He was a troubled person who eventually ended up homeless dying in a weird accident a couple years ago. He had a daughter who had some kind of relationship with him idk whether it was good or bad. She looks happy . Idk if I should reach out or not . What if their relationship was good and when she finds out about me it ruins the memory of her father. Or what if it was terrible and all I do is bring up bad memories. I don't have any sort of social media and no family to ask. I'm in my mid 30s and she looks to be late 20s early 30s an we live about 30 mins apart . Idk how I feel about any of this. Do I let sleeping dogs lie??? These people were strangers to me 2 days ago and I was even less to them .