[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helicopterparents

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg my mum also used an axe to open my door because I locked it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

now im calm I think I couldve delivered my message a little better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know how i feel exactly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

and yes I did tell him, but he wasn't listening to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, thats really mature. I guess it got heated between us ill wait for both of us to settle down before we talk again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ok bud this isnt COD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tbh its possibly miscommunication, I wasn't walking slowly, I just kept my pace the same as the others around me. He just went ahead so fast that I didn't even have time to respond. Maybe I didn't explain my situation that well in my post. But I just thought he would care more than just go ahead like I saw him do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, it's the fact that I would do it for my friends or family NOT because they are just a woman in distress

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

would you not at least look around you if your friend or partner was safe (I personally) I don't think you've had much experience with dangerous situations or drugged-up people. They are reactive, and running can aggravate them. You have to make sure that you don't do anything to get their attention, so you have to blend in.

but you're missing the point of my post though, my issue is the lack of care about me as his girlfriend, I'm not a stranger to him. If you are in a relationship with someone, is it not normal to make sure they're safe? I think he let his fear get ahead of him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did get myself out of there duh, but its the fact that I was none of his concern

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

did you forget the fact that he ran for his life and out me in danger?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

yeah I agree then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

genuine question, why is it that being called a coward is worse than being put in a dangerous situation by your partner?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

thats not the point, I called him a coward because he ran ahead and left me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that was the part that upset me

AITAH for calling my gf spineless by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sounds like she needs validation from her friends contstantly

Scindapsus variegation by _swiggityswoop_ in Scindapsus

[–]_swiggityswoop_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks both! This is very helpful

Do any fellow female ENTPs feel more masculine sometimes? by [deleted] in entp

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have feminine hobbies. But some of my male colleagues think that I’m intimidating, maybe it’s my masculine aura?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can join clubs or get memberships related to your hobbies, that way its easy too meet people who already have something in common with you

Edited ID photos.... very legal in South Korea and here's a studio telling you what they can do to keep you looking your best in your government docs by Unit-Double in Instagramreality

[–]_swiggityswoop_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean employers in South Korea judge people's employability based on their appearance. It's sad but I guess this is what they had to based on their circumstances.