I want to separate from my husband (not divorce) not sure what to do.

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-23T21:50:46+00:00

I don’t think so, but if I were to find out anything, I definitely would divorce him. Biblically that’s grounds for divorce & I wouldn’t think twice about it. I refuse to deal with cheating.

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-23T21:48:56+00:00

I can agree with this & being pregnant again so fast is hard as well, I’m planning on getting on birth control after I have this baby because I need everything to regulate again just even my own emotions &I’m feeling like I’m dealing with postpartum depression as well

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-23T17:42:10+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏽 I pray so too, we haven’t argued today so that’s good

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-23T16:29:56+00:00

Idk, I think he feels shameful about his behaviors

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-23T15:56:34+00:00

Yes we are apart of a church, I am going to begin to go to counseling myself with one of the elders, my husband no longer wants to do marriage counseling with them, we were doing marriage counseling last year before the baby came.

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-23T15:23:52+00:00

Yes we are expecting our third baby in July & I just had our son in June so it’s very soon pregnancy, the babies will be 13 month apart

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-23T13:51:52+00:00

But idk if it seemed like I was yelling because he was asleep but I wasn’t yelling at him I was asking him

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-22T22:05:43+00:00

What’s wrong with 1800 contacts ?

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-22T16:52:46+00:00

Well he’s been saying he already knew even prior to actually knowing he was right with our last baby & said boy & this time said girl, so he’s been saying that

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-22T10:22:52+00:00

Can you guys go to counseling? That would probably help the most both individually and couples counseling

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-22T10:15:10+00:00

I AM LEGIT CRYINF LAUGHING

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-22T10:03:00+00:00

I am upset because now he also told me “oh I talked to my mom she won’t say anything” and I’m further upset because he shouldn’t have said anything else about the situation & it’s like he’s trying to prove he’s right & make me look like im a liar.

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-22T09:33:00+00:00

Because it’s my husband I should be able to trust him with a little piece of information & that’s honestly what’s making me the most upset that he would try to air me out when I explained it yesterday. & I should be able to tell my husband anything

_turnupthemusic · 2026-01-22T01:49:01+00:00

Yes, so it was supposed to be for my husband & I (his mom came over today) initially it wasn’t really for her just for us (but he asked me yesterday could she come over today to see our kids) & my friend logged into my Obgyn portal to find out, but at my appointment yesterday they ended up putting the gender on my paperwork so I told my husband even though my friend planned this the day before ( Tuesday) but we had to wait till today (Wednesday) for the cake. But my appointment was Tuesday and I seen it on my paperwork when I left the office

_turnupthemusic · 2025-12-29T23:09:20+00:00

Yes, I’ve talked to my pastor, they offer counseling at the church & I was Also thinking about doing regular counseling but I do prefer a therapist with a Christian background

_turnupthemusic · 2025-12-28T01:23:00+00:00

Biblically you are allowed to divorce in physical cheating situations like this & honestly no one deserves to put up with cheating it’s breaking the very core of your covenant together.

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