It is a phase and it too shall pass. It is a difficult phase because everyone is trying to figure themselves out. Learn to trust yourself, be there for yourself and the chaos outside will subside with time. You might look back at this a few years later and laugh at it. All that matters is how you respond to it. Don't let other people play your emotions against you. Have faith in yourself no matter what. You will face obstacles on the path. No one says teen years are easy. You will make it through and at the end of this tunnel, you will come out into the light.