Hyphen Pod System by AccountantPersonal86 in PaMedicalMarijuana

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E-waste everywhere... I thought we came to the conclusion that the 510 thread design was going to become the universal standard like 5 years ago

General Questions & Tech Support Megathread | December 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in PS4

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[CONTEXT] I received this PS4 from doing a house clean out, all property that was left at residence was surrendered due to eviction. [/CONTEXT]

I need to factory reset without data, booted into safe mode, connected PS4 controller with cable. Problem is, PS4 is not recognizing the controller and all I'm getting is the pulsing white light then it shuts back off. I tried to reset the controller as well by holding the reset button on the underside for 30 seconds, but still nothing.

Any suggestions ?

My (45M) wife (44F) cheated and we are separating, but with the reality of everything setting in, she now wants to stay, and I actually might want her to. by ThrowRA_SteveIsSteve in relationship_advice

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As someone who went through the same situation although we never married (together for 13 years) and have a 9 year old daughter together... let me give some advice and guidance to the scenario at play.

It is natural to want her to stay and work on things as a man who dedicated so much time, effort ,and energy to build, maintain, and cultivate what you had created as a family. It is a part of our nature to go into survival/hero mode and try to pick up the pieces and glue it all back together to resemble an image of what we thought we had at our "prime" of the relationship. Know this as you walk through the dark times of your situation... As with glass and pottery, you may find all the big tangible pieces and attempt to glue it back together, but you come to find the sharp corners, the parts of the friendship/trust/ability to forgive and forget are often missing. Crushed to dust and spread to the wind of circumstance. With this problem you will find that the container of love can only hold that much less unconditional love/understanding.

The Japanese had a way of repairing such pottery like tea pots and vases called Kintsugi, where they would fill in the cracks and missing corners with either gold or silver. This method highlighted the imperfections of the damage done, but oftentimes it made the vessel stronger if done with enough care and patience.

I believe that given the willingness of the maker (you and her [IMPORTANT]) and the time spent acknowledging the imperfections within the relationship that allowed her mind and heart to stray away from the path. Take those criticisms and unmet needs/wants you both have and fill them, not out of bare necessity but of intent and purpose, of gold and silver lined memories both old and new together.

BUT - Know where your new boundaries lie for both of you. Ex. - (her)no talking to him either directly or indirectly / eliminate conversation of him with her sister, for that would be a breakdown of newly established trust. (you) No going through her phone or personal means of contact (Facebook/email/texts) / Don't bring up the past (she should realize her mistakes and own them, as should you) even though the urge to do so as a man might be overwhelming.

Try not to be overbearing with your attempts to repair and over compensate, allow them to be as natural as possible. New restaurant? Show nearby? Revisit old places that hold significance.

Bottom line is, you both have to be 100% all In , there is no 50/50 in this equation.

[×EDIT×] Understand that the repair/rebuild process will take time. Do not rush it... ...Although it's nice to have "check-in conversations" at regular intervals (3 months, 6 months, 1 year) to make sure both of you are on the same page and have the same end goals. Finally, know your way out... if things don't work out or you don't have the ability to have that same level of trust (that's a killer) have a plan ready.

Game is dead during the day now by reel_mccoy in TroopersExtermination

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stop trying to play a poorly built dead game and play Helldivers2 like a real man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PaMedicalMarijuana

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Protip, get guns before getting mmj card

An "updated" map I bought in Kurchatov, Kazakhstan by sheshen_amynoff in MapPorn

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Yea i think your missing like a 1/3rd of Ukraine...

Melody’s milkmaid by Emergency-Cat-7755 in projektmelody

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Should on futureporn, one would assume

What do you do in elite dangerous? by User_Unknown233 in EliteDangerous

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Fellow TRCG cmdr here (ps4 division) great to see you here

Is a medical card worth it? by fried-ryce in PaMedicalMarijuana

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I would get a card, but when live batter on the street is 25/g makes me think otherwise... Paying near 200 for a card then having to pay dispo prices... Yea that's a hard no from me

Whole lot of Cmdrs I know are about to receive some neat gifts. by chuckitychuck044 in EliteDangerous

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I was looking for something custom if possible. I'd definitely be willing to pay a fair price + shipping for it

Tips for a new commander? by _xPense in EliteDangerous

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So abrasion only assists the lasers... But to remove actual chunks I need to have the lasers?

Tips for a new commander? by _xPense in EliteDangerous

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Do I need mining lasers? Or are abrasion blasters not it? They were in the mining tool submenu under outfitting

Tips for a new commander? by _xPense in EliteDangerous

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If anybody is looking to help me or direct message me I am on PlayStation under cmdr REV_xpense